I wanna fuck his brains out!! ?

[Anonymous]

I've know and liked this guy for about 10 years weve always had this unspoken sexual thing between us but in these 10 years weve never done anything (maybe flirt and send pics) and all i wanna do is fuck his brains out!! But i want more then that with him! If we ever start talking in a i wanna date u kinda way should i wait to have sex with him or is knowing him for 10 years and flirting long enough lol

[PeachSunset]

I think its great you're looking for a relationship rather than a friends with benefits kind of thing!
10 years is a LONGGG time for a relationship, trust me!! If you know him on a personal level and you want to be in a relationship obviously, you've taken a liking to his personality and its not just the pics you've take a liking too. I think no matter how long you've known each other, first you should come to terms with him that you want a real relationship, not just based off sex before you actually have intercourse with him.
Trust me. Also i'm kind of confused lol, your title says you want to fuck his brains out but yet you say you want a relationship so i'm not sure which one you want, maybe both lol?
Just try to get in an actual relationship before you have sex with him, it makes sex like 100% better knowing its someone you love and someone you're in a relationship with, its not as special with just a guy you've sent pics to and stuff.
If he doesn't want to be in a relationship, its fine there's a lot of fish in the sea! And you can still have sex with him from time to time BEFORE you get a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Well he seems like he's on the same level where he seems like he wld like a relationship tooo.. but also have sex just as badly lol weve know each other since we were like 16 17 years old we are now 26 and 27 years old... lol sorry to confuse u lol yes i mean both 😊

[Asker]

Its just time'n was always bad we were always in other relationships

[PeachSunset]

Go for it girl!! Haha, its gonna work out. So don't sweat it, but instead of being like "Hey I wanna fuck you" you should probably say "Hey, I wanna be in a relationship with you"/"Hey, I wanna date you", etc. Sex can wait, even a week after you get into a relationship it just might be a little off the bat, even if you guys have known each other for 10 years you know. But good luck, hope you do end up 'fucking his brains out' XD i'd probably be really excited once i'm older to have sex with my boyfriend o-o haha so...

[Candy_Girl]

If you actually want to get in a relationship with the guy, don't just "fuck his brains out" right away, cause most guys will not respect a girl like that. You may know him for a long time, but you may not know what he is like as a sexual interest or dating or romantic partner. Get to know that part of him before "Fucking his brains out" if you actually want to start something serious with him, if you're just horny and want something to hump, then by all means do whatever you want...

[Asker]

This is what i thought but i was just wondering if maybe i was over thinking it or maybe over looking something

[Candy_Girl]

nope, you're right. just try to use common sense and separate that from you hormones, there's a time and place for everything. don't rush in, unless you are willing to lose him as fast as you're done fucking him...

[Our_Dilemmas]

I guess if you want something more than just a fling out of the relationship then you might want to go on a few dates before having sex. See how it goes on the dates and you will be able to judge it better if it is appropriate to have sex. You have known each other for a long time so it's not like he's a stranger.

[timmy111]

Ease into it... 2-4 dates, build a little bit of anticipation/ tension between you, than go for it

[Iron_Man]

Well if it does not work out for you there is always Iron Man that is wiling and able. lmao"

[Asker]

Lmao didn't get this until i read the name lmao

[Iron_Man]

lol well now you know I am here. HAHAHA

[Asker]

Ahahaha

[Iron_Man]

I am ready to go

[XNicholeMariex3]

You have known of him for 10 years, but do you really KNOW him? Try getting to know him more on a personal level, and I don't mean with your body. lol

[HookingSwan]

Agree completely. Dont jump into anything.

[Asker]

Yes i know him on a more personal level lol

[sexyphil]

If you are that close then just ask to get with him. Worst he can do is say no

[SHMBO2]

Wait until it's the right time

[Asker]

How do i know when its the right time?

[SHMBO2]

Don't go straight to sex wait like 5 dates or so it will even make sex better

[ThatBritishLad]

That's pretty kinky.

[Tomsta]

Just be honest with him

[Anonymous]

Go for how you feel is what I say. People play too many fucking games. At the end of the day you want this dude's dick inside you. You might as well tell him like it is.

[Asker]

I do all the time.. we are very open wit eachother

[Opinion Owner]

Alright then what's the issue? What did he say? Yes? No?

[Asker]

Oh wait well i havnt actually came out and said hey i wanna fuck u badly.. i dont just wanna be sex to this guy even tho how badly i wanna fuck him lol and im not someone who has slept with a lot of men he would be only the 3rd guy

[Opinion Owner]

Ehh every guy is different. The chicks gon say "Noooo talk it out first. Wait at least a few months and date him then get sexual." Some guys might feel a girl isn't shit after having sex with her quickly and other guys like me will still fuck with her. Though I don't really date really still I wouldn't leave her hanging unless we agreed to that from the beginning. But yeah every guy is different, so I guess it's either luck of the draw or keep your panties up for a long time.