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  • if your scared of how sex might be for you. find someone who will be more gentle with you and take their time. you don't have to rush into doing anything sexual crazy. also consider getting a toy to use for practice in the mean time. so you can get used to the size and shape factor.

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  • It is OK to be scared of penisses and sex. It can be very scary! Sex can be painful and penisses are pretty aggressive things. I once dated a 32 year old virgin with the same fears. The solution was easy, i just kept my pants on every time we had sex xD (yes sex also works without penis or penetration).
    This helped her a lot to fight her fear.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why would you ever be scared of penises and sex? lool can't wait to be blessed with a man and his penis and sex.

  • They are lk little alien monsters hiding in they pants😂

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  • I could break you in. My penis doesn't bite. You'll like it, I promise.

  • Find an asexual guy or see a therapist for coitophobia

  • so what's got you scared of penises?
    a penis isn't big enough to be scared of its Dicks you need to run from... im sorry I shouldn't be like that but I just couldn't resist hahahaha so tell me what's up with you and maybe I can help fix it

  • Then why you want a boyfriend? why not look for a girlfriend instead? you have a phallophobia.

    • I think if I get over it, I can enjoy it, but I would probably need to be really high/drunk the first few times

    • I see, so your have phallophobia but you are not antisexual, so theoretically you okay with having sex to satisfy your boyfriend and you think that if you get over your phallophobia then you would be able to enjoy having sex with your boyfriend. So your problem is "only" when it comes to having sex in practice, even though you would agree to have sex with your boyfriend, you believe that you would get cold feet unless your are really high or really drunk. Usually having sex with a girl who is really high or really drunk is considered a bad thing, but in your case it might be the only way that you could start having sex, and the only way that you could keep your boyfriend from leaving you.

      You should tell your boyfriend that you afraid of sex to the point that you can't have sex unless you are very drunk, you better give him your consent before your get drunk, then he would have less to worry about you claiming that he raped you. By the way what you mean by really drunk? to the point that you might not remember anything? you think that you should be able to get over your fear of your boyfriend penis and sex with him even if you would not remember anything? him telling you that he had sex is enough? knowing that you had a penis in you and that you didn't die from it would be enough for you to continue having sex with your boyfriend but without being drunk?

      www.teenvogue.com/.../is-drunk-sex-considered-rape

  • Well perhaps you need to learn more about it?

    It seems likely that you are afraid either of the unknown or because someone has filled your head with a lot of nonsense.

    Or counselling perhaps if you have had a bad experience of some kind.

  • Your probably not on your own I except loads of girls have been where you are at this time What is your phobia Do you know what triggered

  • Why are you scared?

  • LOL you're how old and scared of a penis?

    • 21 years old! And a virgin

    • I'm a virgin too, but don't be afraid lol

  • What is there to be afraid of? It's an inanimate member, all it does on its own is harden.

  • Talk to him about it. It might be awkward at first but maybe he can help.

  • How old are you seriously? Girl , you must been hurt or abused I'm sorry

    • I’m 21

  • Get a psych referral from your family doctor. They can help sort out fantasy from reality, and help with mental illnesses. You're simply not ready for a boyfriend.

  • I don't know maybe find a dude whos small so it isn't so intimidating.

  • Don't watch naughty america.

  • How bout this, if you're worth it I'll let you cut my dick off. Does that make sense? Lol what makes you scared of a penis?

  • Is there a reason you’re scared of penises?

  • Try to think of cocks, watch porn, and fantasize that you are having sex with a guy. One day you will have to have it, so why not now? Shed off your fear and start by sucking.

  • penises dont bite. you'll be fine

  • Its normal to some extent to feel that way, so maybe its better if you wait a bit longer and then see how you feel about it. But realize that lots of girls have felt the way you do and gotten past it.

  • How old are you?

    • 21 years old

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