Once again, opinion only from me.
I did have a threesome with a married couple back before COVID as I want to try everything sexual, that I safely can, before I die. I have no fear of repercussions, from any source, so I guess you can say I am rather uninhibited when it comes to sex. The couple was Hispanic, and I met them at their apartment, on a Saturday night, and they were very cordial. I was very nervous, as a first time, 'swinger', and I did eat his wife's pussy, but could not get a hard-on to fuck her and that was very frustration. I was very educational, as the husband had a VERY HARD, but small penis, and he did fuck his wife but was stupid, but ejaculated all over her stomach and lower chest which really angered her.
At one point I was having online sex, with a college girlfriend, here in CA, and at the time she was still in Ohio, and she was down for about anything. She got an erect penis picture from a guy online, and eventually met hm in her car, and jacked him off and she would have sucked him and fucked him if she had been able to ask me if I was alright with it, AND he did not have a 'rubber".
To sum this all up, I want to try everything I can, and so far have never regretted any of this, and it depends on your mindset at the time. It might really excite you, to watch your boyfriend fuck another girl, as i would have really got me hard to see Carla fucked by the guy she met online.
Don't worry about "later" live for now, you only live once.
Sorry for all of the careless typo's
Mine was ruined because of a threesome gone wrong. We had a guy we barely knew but thought he would be good in bed. My girlfriend, at the time, proposed the threesome with him and said only the two of them would have contact. We got started and he started touching both of us, but I didn’t say anything at first because I thought it was an accident. So I started to have sex with my girlfriend in front of him and the next thing I know, he’s right behind me trying to mount me. I told him no way but, after some convincing from my girlfriend, I let him in. The worst part was we weren’t using condoms since we had all been tested together. I let him finish and I felt disgusting - I couldn’t even finish myself after he pulled out. Plus, even after my girlfriend convinced me to go through with it, she started backing away from our relationship and I never even tried to initiate sex with her again. So it really did ruin our relationship but I don’t think it would’ve lasted much longer once we started experimenting with threesomes
This is possibly the worst site on the planet to talk about this. The people on this site are not normal. I seriously don't know a single person (in the real world) who hasn't had a threesome. This site is about virgins giving sex advice. If you both want it, then do it. Don't miss out on life just to appease a bunch of dysfunctional strangers online.
Make a ton of rules, and talk about it. The divorce rate among swingers is less than that of the vanilla cheaters. The vanilla cheaters are the ones who sit in the front row of church, because they think that will make up for being a bad person.
I enjoyed your read, as you are very straightforward, and that is nice to hear. My one and only threesome was nice, but I was really nervous, (honestly scared) but the couple was very nice, and I was stupid to not stay in touch with them, and I didn't because I could not get hard with his wife and the HUSBAND was as hard as a rock which, left me feeling left out. I was in their apartment and wish I had invited them to my home in Huntington Beach as I would have been much more comfortable. I may try again. Thanks again for your very HONEST input.
@Bricealan I've had two FMFs with two couples, and I didn't like it. I didn't like being the third wheel. But now I have a boyfriend, and we're planning on giving it a try. I think I'll like that much better.
yes the rules are important
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Personally I think threesomes are much overrated and they absolutely have a tendency to ruin things. Often a sort of hail mary to rekindle things.
That said, for the couples into them who can handle them emotionally? I reckon they might just be life-changing. In your case you're referencing some sort of cuckquean kink or alike? Which really does sound rather ideal, of course you also sharing an interest in whiever the third is helps.
It might turn bad. Might not. But as long as you set very clear boundaries, do's and don'ts it tends to work out fine. Key really is to be super clear about what both of you are okay with and to check in during. Emotions can be weird.
A 3some is just a way of saying "I am done with this relationship and I want to screw someone else, I just don't have the guts to end the relationship". If you ever can see your partner having sex with someone else, time to end the relationship.
Is it you want to see him have sex with another woman or are you wanting to see sex from another perspective maybe you should try recording yourself have sex with him and watch it back.
If you are wanting a 3som then maybe you want to get an escort so you know there isn't an emotional aspect to what's happening. That way things won't come back to haunt you.
Threesomes have for sure messed with people’s relationships but they often go in to it not understanding their partners thoughts fully. But it sounds like you are the one who wouldn’t like it. What makes you think you will grow to not like it?
dont do it haha
Because you have a sense of morals telling you something is wrong and irs not right and you’ll regret it later.
This is perversion. Rebuke it in Jesus name and pray over it. Even if you’re not Christian don’t give into something that you know is wrong and degenerate
You have to communicate with your s/o and have to have everything open and talked about... Just like you I want more out of my relationship ( actually a triad with another woman ) and it's a long and sometimes hard process to get everyone on board... Good luck to you.
3sums have ruined lots of relationships. They tend to be better when you're in between relationships and with a friends with benefits that you can really trust. Some fantasies are best left fantasies. Just because you have a fantasy it doesn't mean you're going to do it or that you have to do it, it's just fun to think about.
If you go through with it... is there a friend that doesn't live nearby or is moving away? You don't want to be plagued with doubt about him wanting her again and worrying about him cheating.
It's a double edged blade. Take your time and if in doubt, leave it out. If you're not absolutely sure and all parties completely comfortable... don't do it
Any time you allow your significant other to put his D in another P you run the risk of one or both of them liking it so much that they will want to do it again - with or without you. Not saying it will happen, but it could.
Go for it. I have lots of threesomes and they were a lot of fun. You just need to find someone that works for you.
Everybody have threesome fantasy and that should stay just as a fantasy in a serious relationship.
What if the other girl sucks his dick better than you and he want her to suck it all the time. What if that becomes an addiction and he always want multiple girls for sex?
what if other guy fucked you better like never before and you let him to fuck even when your boyfriend is away?
lol I know all sounds great but would destroy your relationship
A threesome seems fun at the time but it can mess up a whole relationship and put doubts in your head. I wouldn't suggest it.
One person always gets jealous
Perhaps separate in your own mind, love making and recreational sex, seems like a bad idea if you not completely sure,,,
I've done this in multiple serious LTRs and it's always brought us closer and tbh the girls have always wanted to do it again like it was a good experience. So I'd say go for it.
Having a threesome can cause bad feelings later so I would say not do it if you are not sure of it
People don't share thing they put a lot of value in. Women won't share her expensive jewelry because she puts a lot of value on it. But she has no issues sharing her man because she really doesn't care that much about him.
Yes do it hun
No but I want one too
explore your sexual sides
you may regret not having a 3some in 5 years
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