I want him to suck my nipples?

[Anonymous]

I stopped him once now I want him so bad. I’m an old school kind of girl I’m having sex after mariage. I’m a virgin. My boyfriend spoils me with expensive dates. He respects me and does everything to make me happy. He loves me. We’ve been 2 years together and last year he was kissing me in his car and he happened to go off his limits. He was kissing my neck and then he pull down my off shoulder top and then started to suck my nipple and then I stopped him telling him that it was disrespectful of him. I didn’t talk to him for a month and he successfully got my forgiveness. We only hug kiss rarely and hold hands. It’s more about the talking and eating at new restaurants nowadays. What do I do? I want him to suck me

[Honest-Matt]

Make an effort to create an intimate situation, start to makeout and then tell him, in the heat of the moment, that you kinda liked it when he sucked your nipples. A bold way of making this easier would be while making out, start pulling his shirt off, run your hands on his chest, start taking your shirt off. While still kissing, run your hands up to his head and gently pull his head down to your chest and pull your head back. It should be obvious at that point without even mentioning you liked when he sucked your nipples.

[20yearsolder]

You have to be honest with him, tell him your limits before you start. Remember when you pulled my top down and you were sucking my nipples. I want you to do that to me again, I want it so bad but we're only going to go so far and tell him your limits. I'm just letting you know that you're going to leave him with a raging boner if he touches and suctions your nipples. Feel free to PM me and I'll give you any advice I can to help you

[anon1903]

Communicate. If he doesn't believe in saving up for marriage, you're probably wasting your and his time by dating somebody with opposite values.

Cut out the semi virgin crap. If he sucks your nipple, he'd probably wanna go all the way in. So you either restrict to hugging and kissing, or lose it.

[Asker]

I don’t get you

[anon1903]

Which part

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 This was really solid advice!! 💯

[anon1903]

@Jamie05rhs thanks:D

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome! 🌟

[EmmaMary]

Sadly I really can't see this so called "relationship" lasting much longer.

You need to start making your mind up what exactly you want, once and for all.

[Asker]

💔💔💔

[EmmaMary]

What?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

Tell him you’re ready?
And you want him to

[Asker]

For sex?

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

No To go the extra mile You want him to get touchy Sex is way too much But if you both want it Then you can go for it

[Asker]

Okay

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

But let him know you have boundaries Make sure he understands it

[Asker]

How do I tell him about the boundaries?

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

Invite him over but let him know you want to talk about something serious with him When he comes, tell him you liked it when he did it the first time but you were just not ready but now you are , you’d like for him to do that sometimes but only when you approve of it and you don’t want it to end with sex unless and Only if you both want it. I’m sure he’ll understand.

[Asker]

I hope he gets me

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

Please let me know how it goes? Good luck!

[Lliam]

The next time you're kissing, pull your shoulder strap down yourself and give him access.

If he hesitates, look into his eyes and, with a tender smile, say "I'm ready now."

Once his lips and tongue touch you, tell him how it feels. Tell him when he does something that feels amazing.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. Nooo; don't say that! He'll think you're "ready" for something else! 😂

[cryscrys1]

So you are a vegan but eats eggs once in a while

[Asker]

What?

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Try sitting on his lap, grind on top of him and strip, or you can just kiss him and request it in a sweet tone. (Most likely he'll be happy to do it. 😉👉👈)

[richgentlem4n]

damn! this is wild 🔥🔥

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I forgot to go anon. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Okay I’ll try

[lisaleib]

Reach out to him. Dm me and I will tell you what to write.

[Asker]

Yeah sure

[jshm2]

Get a cow milker instead...

Seriously, you put him off and now cry about it? Sure you're not bipolar or something?

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[AviatorTom]

Next time you two are alone in a private place, take off your top and stick your boobs in his face. He'll get the hint. Feel free to guide his lips to your nipples.

[Asker]

Noted

[Dargil]

Have him suck your nipples while he (carefully) fingers you. You will both like it.

[Asker]

How to start it?

[Dargil]

Just ask him directly. "I would like you to suck my nipples while you finger me." I would not hesitate.

[Asker]

But he’ll think that I’m not a good girl like...

[Dargil]

For me it would be an icebreaker. It tells him you want to feel loved. You can even say that. "I want to feel loved".

[Asker]

Then he’ll say you know I love you

[Dargil]

"But SHOW ME".

[Asker]

“How do I show you”

[Dargil]

"Finger me and suck my nipples".

[Asker]

It’s so direct 💔

[Dargil]

Guys get a warm feeling all over when girls are direct about sexual things.

[Asker]

What if he thinks that I’m being a hoe?

[Dargil]

You have been with him two years. He WANTS sexual intimacy but he's shy about taking the next step. Tell him it's because you want to feel closer to him.

[Asker]

But how

[Dargil]

Ok. A question for you. Are you intimate now beyond making out?

[Asker]

Nooooo

[Dargil]

If you want sexual intimacy, you or he will have to initiate something. Maybe you can begin by rubbing his bare back under his shirtbwhile kissingnhim.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My first ex-girlfriend left me to suck her nipples she got wet but we never had sex

[Asker]

So you mean he’ll leave me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker I can't say that cause all guys are different

[FunkyMonkee]

If he won't do it, I'm available!

[Asker]

No I’m loyal to him

[FunkyMonkee]

Cool!

[FilmGuy93]

You should just tell him that you like how it felt and want him to do it again.

[stratford]

There is nothing shameful about having your nipples sucked. And I'm sure if you lead him in that direction he will be most willing.

Did it feel nice when he did it first time round?

[Asker]

Yes I loved it

[stratford]

So is it that you want him to suck you nipples but you feel that you shouldn't do it, or that you want him to suck your nipples but as you said no last time you don't know how to go about initiating that again?

[Asker]

Both situations are true🤦‍♀️

[stratford]

Well, if you want him to do that again, he won't need much encouragement :-) If you wanted to give him a real treat, wear a button up shirt and either a very thin bra, or no bra at all (the top could be thicker if you don't want to reveal to much). Then, during the course of the night, you coudl gradually undo the buttons (without him noticing when you do it). You could lean over him to kiss him to give him a visual treat, move in close for a cuddle so he can feel you, and by the time you have unbuttoned past your boobs, he will not be able to resist your gift to him. Alternatively, wear a sports bra any time you're near him and he won't stand a chance 😂 Hope that helps. Feel free to PM if you wanna chat some more about it.

[Asker]

The situation is that we both come from brown families (indian) so we live with our parents. He’s 21 like me and he’s still a student but he comes from a rich and well off family and he’s a mechanical engineer student. He does everything to make me happy takes me on expensive dates and buys me gifts everytime. And the last time I told him no when he started to suck my nipples he respected my opinion. Since then he didn’t touch me. I once tried to let him touch me again and then he told me to wait until marriage and then he dropped me home.

[stratford]

He sounds like a good man who wants to respect you. Perhaps you need to lead him astray a little but, but also you can get him very very horny (stroke his leg, move closer to his bulge but don't touch it - see if he gets hard), then kiss his neck and tell him you love him and are ready for a little bit more exploration now.

[Asker]

But I don’t want to go for sex

[stratford]

You don't need to. When you tell him you are ready, be very clear what you are ready for. I assume he hasn't touched you anywhere else, or you haven't touch him yet? One thing you need to be careful of is if you both enjoy the nipple sucking too much, you might not be able to resist taking things further. Would you be ok to PM about it?

[Asker]

Noooooooooo we didn’t touch each other yet apart from the last time he tried to suck my nipples that’s all

[stratford]

ok, well I hope my advice helps. Let me know how it goes! Feel free to PM if I can help any more.

[Danny_dan92]

Press his face on your tit

[Asker]

Haha if it would have been so easy

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe he’s a homosexual

[Jamie05rhs]

He f'ed up. He woke the Beast!

[Asker]

What?

[Jamie05rhs]

He has awakened the she-wolf inside of you.

[Asker]

A year passed by already

[Jamie05rhs]

Since it happened?

[Asker]

Yeah

[Jamie05rhs]

So have you calmed down, then? Can you forget about it? Can you set it aside until after you guys are serious and get married?

[Wise4myage]

Why don't you just ask him? But tell him you will give him a BJ in return, or a hand job.

[Asker]

No bj but handjob

[Wise4myage]

That works, lol. I doubt he will deny you, but he prepared for him to ask for more of the same.

[clampfan101]

Waiting for marriage will be worth it.

[Asker]

Are you sure? Just to suck my nipples? I have to wait till marriage?

[clampfan101]

I’m not telling you what to do. I’m just giving my opinion. I think him being willing to wait is a great sign of him genuinely caring about you, but again that’s just my thoughts. Do what you feel is right.

[Asker]

I’m scared if I might lose him

[clampfan101]

Would he be worth it if he would leave you for not doing it before marriage?

[Asker]

Now I’m confused

[clampfan101]

Never mind. Just follow your heart.

[Caliguy88]

Tell him to suck on them. Nothing to worry about.

[LavLavLuv]

just ask him

[Asker]

But how!!!

[maximumpower]

It's been two years and you even denied him that?
You've set so many boundaries that I'm surprised he's even still there.
Either he's a basket case or you must REALLY have something he wants.
Tell him what you want him to do.

[Asker]

I don’t know what to do

[maximumpower]

Tell him what you want, but be prepared to give him something in return (e. g., hand job). Beware the slippery slope. (If you don't know what that is, look it up.)

[Twalli]

Ask him to do it again or tell him you're ready for him to do it now

[Asker]

Okay