I want my boyfriend to finger me but I don't know how to ask?

So me and my boyfriend get all sexy on text and messages and when we are together but he wants to do it but he doesn't want to ask because he will turn me away how do i give him the idea without making it awkward
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  • While making out simply reach into his crotch, even if both of you still wear clothes. Reach there onto his jeans just like that. Now you kinda broke the ice. I would start reaching to hers at this point because she opened that door, but if He doesn't because he's still unsure (some guys are like that, because it seems too good to be true) you simply grab his hand and lay it on your thigh very close to your crotch. If he still doesn't go from there widen your legs a bit, this should finally reach him and he knows what you want.

  • Just put his hand down there when you are making out. Tell him how good it feels and you love that. Tell him to put his middle finger in and feel how warm and wet it is from what he did to you. Or you can keep taking his hand and guiding it there as well.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Start kissing him and see how intense it goes, if he doesn't move his hand, guide it for him, he'll the the idea haha

    • thanks 😊

  • Just put his hands down there on you. He will know.

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  • Take his hand and put your hand on top and place it on your thigh without taking your hand off. Look him in the eyes and move his hand slowly and gently.

    • thanks 😊

    • No problem! 😁

  • First of all wait till your of legal age. Then when your making out guide his hand to your pussy and let him get the hint

  • Ask him to.

    • I don't know how to ask him

    • First of all let me express my surprise of a 15 young old asking her boyfriend to finge her. You can simply make some sexy moves when You are together and pick up your courage and ask him. He would not mind I am sure.

  • You are both nervous. These things will happen, its a matter of helping it along with the location and clothes. Try and be in a quite house without any risk of interruptions. Also wear something that won't hinder the situation. A dress is better than jeans. Good luck. But also take your time, if it's going to happen it will happen. Whatever you do don't send any pictures (sexting) as you can't get these back further down the line.

  • You're too young for sexual activity in my opinion and so is your boyfriend. If he is overage he shouldn't have sex with you anyways.

    Be careful about what you're doing. I've seen girls your age start off like this and later on it becomes worst as they become easy to a lot of guys.

  • Have you ever had a guy finger you before

  • Suck on his fingers.

  • Lol right a quest Lol with that being the end game ! Its a fun way to lead someone to a goal of yours

  • just ask him

  • Try talking sexy at first. Then suggest cuddling

  • Kiss him and let him know that you are in mood

  • Wait till you and him are alone on the couch. Look into his eyes. And say"Baby finger Merrill I can on your hand". Had a girlfriend that said that to me and was the mouse erotic thing I've been told to date

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    • Let me know-how it works

    • I will

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  • O don't understand why women are such pussies like just fucking tell him to finger you, babe can you finger ms please send thanks that's it. If you don't want to do it face to face text him and say I eBay to have sex but I what you to finger me first it's not hard

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  • Just ask

  • Just put his hand down your pants

    • What do i do before that

    • Kiss him

  • Seduce him and give bj to him and then ask for fingering

  • kiss him and say this :)

  • Well depends on how bad you want it if he wants to he will

  • Tell him straight up

  • Be truthful or just grab his hand and show. him

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