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I want my to do 3 some with my husband. How can I tell him will he mind?

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  • Lol I’d tread lightly w this one. Men are really territorial w their women. I mean as hypocritical as it is we’re ok w 2 other women in a 3 some, most cases. But not w two men banging a female. Especially if it’s his wife. It would be different if it was just two men banging you, but even than a lot of men aren’t into the MMF. Someone said the least he can do is say no, but if he says no this ain’t going to leave his mind. He may get pissed off about it. If another man touches his girl, especially his wife we tend to look at her as tainted. Use caution.

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  • Tell him. All that he can do is to say no. Be sure to emphasize MFM so that hubby understands you don't want him sexually involved with the other guy.

    I hooked up with a couple at a resort in Mexico back in 2004 who were totally into MFM. Everyone had a great time, although I nearly crawled out of their room in the morning. That woman was sexual machine.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have to laugh at the brilliant advice on this site.

    "Just ask him"

    What could go wrong with asking your Indian husband if you can have another cock? lol
    I've given lots of advice to guys about wanting this, and it will work the same with a girl.
    Lemme know

    • What advice have you given? curious to know

    • @Aakash_Hangargi Ask a similar question, and I'll find it.

    • You can just DM me instead , i dont want others opinion just yours

  • Whether he minds or not depends on him and how solid he believes your relationship is. Maybe watch some related porn? or find a movie with a nice threesome scene to break the ice? Let him know the idea excites you without just blurting out that you want another guy.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You want who to do a 3 some?

    • Two guys & me

  • Are you willing to do a threesome with another girl and your husband?

  • I’d assume since you are married you guys can be honest with each other even about weird kinky stuff. My girlfriend and I talked a to. About it before we tried it.
    just ask. Talk about it. Worst that can happen is he says no way.

  • Don't listen to the bs. There's nothing wrong with wanting this. Just ask if he's interested. Or just tell him you really want it

    • She is a married woman. Don't be stupid listen what guys have said.

    • No. You're being selfish. A woman is not your property. You don't get to decide what she does and doesn't do. You don't get to set expectations for her to be your slave. If she wants to do it, it's up to HER to decide and no one else

    • OK let's say I am your partner, Now I want to sleep with other women so I am sleeping with then for example your mom, sister, cousin friends, neighbours etc and having babies with them too if I want. Think once how correct this is.

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  • Absolutely no way of knowing if your husband will be into that. The only way to know it to bring the subject up with him. Maybe start off by taking avout past sexual experiences, and ask if he's ever had a threesome, obviously this only works if you don't already know the answer.

  • There's no telling. Is he generally open-minded?

  • All u can do is ask but unless he is into it it could cause issues

  • I don't know your husband so I don't know if he'll like it or not. Best to tell him next time you have sex. Afterwards, when you're snuggling, tell him how much you like sex with him, and that you'd like to try sex with a third person added to the two of you.

    Just curious... do you want the third person to be a girl (MFF) or a guy (MMF)?

  • You run the risk of his leaving you.

  • Just talk to him. would you do FFM if he wanted that?

  • Watch some porn together that includes what you want and ask him if he would ever like to try it. To be fair you should be prepared to offer him a FMF if he agrees.

  • I don't know, that's hard. If mine approached me, I'd be hurt I think if she said another M. But if she brought it up and said a W I'd not be hurt.

  • Seens like monogamy has become a thought of past

  • It's really really attractive idea, go for it, if he agree then.
    We do occasionally FMF by arranging of my girlfriend.

  • he would as its india.. u can with 2 females and 1 male and he wouldn't object and later may be tell with two guys and u

  • What kind of 3 some you talking about? Another man or woman?

  • Just ask?

    • But get him drunk first, lol.

    • I think that would he harder to get him to agree.

  • With another woman?

    • He will mind. No straight guy wants another guy in the bedroom.

    • is it wrong of me to think like this?

    • You're asking for trouble. So many times, these ideas and fantasies turn into a shit show.

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  • If it is with another girl. He will definitely like the idea.

    • Unless, he's bi then he is probably not going to be in to that but good luck.

  • Not a good idea for me.

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