Looks like it is not love, trust and dignity that holds your couple together but rather what you want to impose on her.
If you really love your wife and don't just see her as an object for your sole perverted sexual needs, then you simply don't ask her and respect her. I hope that it is not too difficult and too much to ask from you.
A person that does not respect his/her partner should never be in a relation in the first place because trying to coerce her/him to do something that they are not ready for or not willing to perform is not how a couple should function.
She has in the past and thinks you don't want it?
Just tell her that. Remember when... that was really hot... how was it for you... etc etc.
Find out what she likes,. who she likes (what type of dudes and etc).
And start the everytime with doing it a few times, if she likes it, take it to a week by going to a vacation, taking that friend with you, all sleeping in the same hotel and giving your wife a hot week.
And go on from there.
Have a talk with her dude.
an MFM or even MMF threesome can be fun, but all three of you need to be into it.
otherwise someone could get hurt emotionally
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Equally do stuff she wants if she wants just u 2 make time for that
That’s crazy why bother even getting married
It would probably have to be with the guy she's attracted to. She probably doesn't like your friend.
You need to both sit down and have a serious talk about it.. I have done this before many times.. don't pressure her.. she may not want to and ultimately it is her decision..
Honor her wishes to show her that she is more important then what you want sexually.
Caring isn't sharing. Let it lie or risk losing her
Don't be desperate and ask her when she is relaxed and not stressed out over something.
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