I want so super badly to have sex with 2-3 guys at once. What do I need to do in order to make that happen for me in reality?

I want so super badly to have sex with 2-3 guys at once. What do I need to do in order to make that happen for me in reality?
I recently got divorced and I want super badly to experiment sexually without commitment (at least for a while). The #1 fantasy I have right now is for 2 (or even 3) guys to have sex with me at the same time (to clarify, only 1 would be having intercourse with me at any given time. The other (s) would be doing other hot, sexy things with me. They'd switch off as well) However, I'm not so sure how easy this would be. I don't want any gay men because I want them all to want to be sexual with me (and enjoy it). Ideally they'd just be focused on pleasing me, but if there's some bisexual guys I'd be OK if they do something together for a bit as well.
I want to do this super, super bad, but I think it might be hard to pull off. Any ideas on how I can make it (2-3 guys having sex with me at the same time) happen?

PS VERY IMPORTANT= I have 0 sexual or romantic interest in women. I am completely heterosexual. Consequently, do not make any suggestions regarding experimenting with women. If other women want to do that I'm happy for them, but that's something that does not appeal to me at all. I am only interested in men.
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  • The first thing you need to do is make sure that you are careful. Is there a man you trust? He should be involved to make sure that the other men respect your boundaries. It's very unlikely that you are going to find two men in your life already that are comfortable with this that you are comfortable with also. For that reason you will need to look elsewhere. Having a man already involved will be a tremendous help with this. Once you find a second person a third is a lot easier.
    There are good and bad places to look. Learn what they are. If you want to DM me, then I can help with that. I don't want to give away what platforms I am on openly.
    Once you find someone willing, vet him VERY carefully. Talk to him about why he is interested other than the obvious. Make sure he is DDF. Never meet in private the first time. All of the common sense stuff. Be warned that you will most likely go through a lot of guys before you feel okay meeting one and then you will go through a lot of meetings where they flake on you and don't show up. (Most men who you talk to are just looking for fap material) If you like him enough to meet and if he shows up and if you get a good felling about him, then you are good to go.

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  • Well I hope you're not so wrapped up in this fantasy that you're neglecting safety and health? Extremely risky, especially when/if you do this, these will be strangers most likely. But the best way probably is finding people in your area with similar interests. To do that... do you have a sex club near you? If so, go there and start meeting like minded people. Or, Fetlife (website) might also be a good way to find like minded people near you, without the likelihood of offending anyone. Then, get to know some people you'd like this to happen with, and be sure to talk about safety and health with them.

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  • Porn. Hear me out on this. The absolute best way to do this with no risk of STDs and an assurance that the men involved will get along and work together is porn. Otherwise you would have to find an equally qualified group of men that have experience with gangbangs and are willing. If you go after randoms or groups of friends they will be at best awkward and at worst diseased.
    You may be able to get lucky on reddit R4R.
    Good luck and have fun. It is a blast.

    • Don't porn stars (including male ones) have a high STD rate?

    • No actually. They have regular std testing requirements and can usually offer proof. If not I would require that of anyone you set this up with.

    • I saw a pornstar talking about this on a podcast once I can't seem to find it and dont know her name.

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  • Well stop posting anonymously and start sharing some pics... that will allow us to tell you what your chances are of accomplishing this.

    Go on tender and post a profile and say you are looking for a men to participate in group sex MMMF. Take your time and find the right 3 or 4 guys, meet them individual first and then set a date for the sex party.

    • Do you think it would be hard for me to find guys who would be OK with having sex with me at the same time as another guy or two is having sex/being sexual with me?

    • I think most guys are uncomfortable with having their junk in such close proximity to another guys junks. So it depend on what you are looking for Double Penetration? Or just two or three guys tag teaming it? I think you would find a descent amount of guys willing to take turns while you sucked them off... but like I say post on a dating site and meet then and aske them what they feel comfortable with once they see you in person... but a lot of this depends on how hot you are and what your standards are in men. But I guess there will be enough curious men to keep you busy. Not me, i am not comfortable with the idea of MMF but I would do FFM.

    • I'm most certainly looking for 2-3 guys to tag team it. Having multiple cocks in me at once would not be enjoyable. I want one screwing me/giving me oral at a time while the other guy or two play with me sexually (and give me pleasure) in other ways. I also would want to give them oral as well. I don't want to brag, but I am very physically attractive. I get guys hitting on me and/or checking me out all the time. I never openly admit this because it would look arrogant, but I'm still very aware of it. I want some pretty hot men. They don't have to be supermodel hot, but I want them to be at least pretty attractive and have some decent muscle on them. I get a lot of men wouldn't want MMF, and that's a big issue. I'm not interested if it's with multiple women. However, I want SOOO badly to be having sex with multiple guys at once. I just need to find guys who 1) want to have sex with me (and not just other guys) 2) are OK with multiple guys having sex with me at once.

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  • Sexy.
    been in a threesome like that and it was super hot. Did it with my girlfriend and a friend.
    ill bet u can find 2 guys into it on hookup sites, or find a local bar where swingers or threesome types hang out... they are out there. At least you’d get to meet the guys at a bar first. I’d assume a threesome is more fun if the chemistry between the 3 of you feels right

  • Great question.

    The one and only time I had two women, I had plans to see my friends with benefits and I asked her if I could bring another woman. She agreed and it was a very memorable experience. I only wish the three of us could do it somewhat regularly. The first time it seemed like all of us were trying to figure out what to do. There were some awkward lulls.

  • Want you're looking for are "private adult clubs".

    They tend to be invite only, and depend on where you live.

  • Do an online search for swingers clubs in your area. Most have reduced entrance fee (or free) for women. Once there, let everyone know what you're interested in and I'm sure you'll get what you want.

  • andrewluther0438@gmail. com
    Well that's the email

  • You could go into most bars and I am sure you will have no trouble finding participants.

    • Participants for a MMF or MMMF threesome or foursome? I know a lot of guys would love it if it was a MFF or MFFF, but I'm just not interested in that. It's going to have to be all guys and me or else I'm just not interested.

    • I stand by my original opinion.

    • You are right - 5-minute problem at most!

  • Just find 2 or 3 guys to agree to fuck you all at the same time.

  • Hey I did this after with my ex-wife. I tell you it was a lot of fun. 5 guys one horny wife makes a lot of fun

  • Go to a swingers page and ask other wives for advice.
    Go gave coffee or wine and talk through things.
    Let them invite you to a party and do what you want.
    They'll guide you.

  • Join adult dating sites to meet people.

  • You can put an ad in Craigslist... they specialize in sexual fantasy shit

  • U could get that Ina club

  • you're divorced 30 something who wants to be gangbanged. So you have very low relationship value. You aren't going to use your personality to get this. Dress as slutty as possible and make the bar for men as low as possible. Go to a skevy singles bar looking like a skank and tell your fantasy to every man there. Then tell them all you're leaving in an hour and if they want to cum leave w you. Probably a few will. Good luck.

  • if your not ugly, walk up to the next 2 guys you see and say come to my house and gang bang me. that's all it will take

  • Just make it known. Join a site dedicated to hookups and sex, post it like an event and men will show up who're down for it.

  • Ask 2-3 guys. It's really that easy

    • Would it be that interested to find guys interested in a MMF or MMMF threesome or foursome? I know a lot of guys would love it if it was a MFF or MFFF, but I'm just not interested in that. It's going to have to be all guys and me or else I'm just not interested.

  • Go on a "swingers' website and start chatting with guys.. Those site will definitely get you pointed in the right direction..

  • I think you may need to focus on "Pulling a Train" multiple Straight Guys all in the same bed will result in a lot of limp willies... but have then line up in the hall... 3, 4, 8?

  • go to adult websites just be careful

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