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Guys, I want to ask him to have sex with me?

Im a divored mother. I'm 30. I have a former coworker that I know is attracted to me but he always saw me as a "goodygoody" type and filtered himself around me for example he wouldn't even curse around me. Anyway, he knows about my situation and he's always been so sweet to me and I feel like he genuinely cares about me. With that being said, sometimes I really crave sex and I wish I could ask him to do me a favor and fuck me? Omg I don't know what to do anymore... I don't want him to think I'm a slut because I'm not but I would feel safe with letting him have me in that way as a friend? If that makes sense. What would you do if u were the guy and I asked for this favor?

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  • I think you can lead him on without coming across as a slut. You can start by just being a little more 'touchy' with him. Put your hand on his arm and make eye contact. Give him a hug when it's appropriate, and be a little closer with it.

    See if you get get him in more 1:1 situations and then you can flurt some more.

    Be vunerable around him so that he feels that you trust him.

    And then you can start to be more suggestive.

    Finally, you probably need to find a reason to go out for a drink with him and then inhibitions will melt away.

    Good luck!

    • Lol perfect

    • Let me know if you'd like to PM about this - it's an interesting conundrum!

  • If I was single I would consider doing it if I saw a relationship with you as a possibility. I don't have sex outside of relationships though. If you just wanted someone to show you love and didn't want to date, ai would eat you out and/or finger you even without a relationship

    • Wow, so how come you would eat me out and finger me but not give me the d? Just curious.

    • My rule is no sex until dating for at least 3 months. I find sex a lot more intimate.

    • Oh gotcha

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  • He okay with you being a divorced mother? it a turn off for many guys, but beside that he don't have any other reason to turn you down, as you don't ask for a serious relationship with him.

    • Yea it's a turn off to actually BE the divorced mother too. He knows why the divorce happened and was kind of one of the people telling me it was the necessary thing to do in my situation so I definitely think he's ok with it. But like you said I don't want the serious relationship.

    • Can I ask you something, if a man is persistent in pursuing me and knows I'm a divored mother is something up? I don't get why he's coming for me so hard when he can get a single woman no children and no past marriage u know?

    • Too good to be true? maybe he was not able to find a single woman no children.

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  • Then be a grownup woman, ask him out on a date and go from there… don’t overthink it. 🙄

    • If I ask him out on a date he's going to think I want a relationship. I don't really want that right now, but..

    • What did I just write about overthinking? Ask him out on a date. Keep the conversation going. Test the waters. Getting sex for a woman isn’t exactly on the level of performing brain surgery.

    • Lol I'm scared. Alright.. well it's not brain surgery most of the time... most guys I know I could easily get it. but I want it from him, and he's different. But I will try your advice but not overthinking is not an option with most women.

  • Be honest, I've always been attracted to you. You've always been fantastic to me. I would love for you to be a friends with benefits. I crave sex and I I'm not interested in a random person. I want you to be my friends with benefits

    • That's perfect but so hard to do! 🥺

    • Get out of your comfort zone and go for it

  • Get him drunk and then ask him.

    • I'm not old enough to buy alcohol lol

    • That was my friend sorry lol...

    • Ha ha now worries

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  • 75% of men will have sex with a stranger when asked.

    • Lol seriously I don't think so. But this guy is different too. Like very respectful, responsible, and has morals. I think he'd probably say no and ask me what's wrong and am I ok haha..

    • I always had morals. That’s frequently mistaken for homosexuality, wimpiness and other maladies.

    • Aww, trust me I understand

  • Just ask him out on a date. The fucking will happen soon enough after that.

  • Then just be patient and not be in a hurry to have sex with him.

    • But we aren't in a relationship. He's just my former coworker who used to compliment me all the time and talk to me when I was stressed. We kind of became friends I don't think he even knows that Im attracted o him in that way though.

    • Ok, then get to know him some and see how he responds. Or, ask if he'd like to meet up and go from their.

  • What would you do if u were the guy and I asked for this favor?

    if i find her attractive , would 110% bang her

  • If I were friends with you and you mentioned your thoughts to me, we would likely go at it and give you many Os.

  • Coworker?
    Don't. Just... don't...

    • Former coworker. We don't work together anymore. Just friends..

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