I want to be the only woman my boyfriend has sex with. What should I do?

My boyfriend had sex with a prostitute before he dated me. I was very sad to hear that. Because i want him to do it with me for the first time. I am very upset and im very jealous of him
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  • Are you a virgin yourself? If so, then I do understand. Maybe he did it with a prostitute because he felt behind and pressured to get it out the way just to be a man. Which is bs. But technically him having sex with you would be his first time with someone he actually likes. So maybe think of it like you’re still his first time? Or you could wait until you’re both married and it would actually be even more special.

    • I had sex with him for the first time. Yes, his friends forced him to have sex with a prostitute. But i still want him to do just that with me

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  • You have to get really good at what you're doing, and the only way you can get good at it is by searching online and experimenting them by yourself and seeing the results, or you can ask a girl who is a master to teach you how to do it
    Either way you have to learn how a man body works and what are the hotspots

Most Helpful Girl

  • There is no way to ever guarantee that you will be the only person someone sleeps with. There is always possibilities that things don’t work out or that someone cheats.

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  • The past is the past and u cannot change it. Make sure he gets tested for STDs before u have sex. Also make sure you plan on and discuss birth control first. Have you fooled around at all with him like handjobs getting naked etc?

  • Uhh well you can't do anything except get over it

  • Give it to him.
    Do not bitch.

    Jokes apart, a lot of dudes have experiences before a long term relationship. And if you're looking for the virgin, you're fresh out of luck more often than not.
    I'll add that a guy that recurs to prostitution to scratch his itches is a little bit of a failure and I wouldn't get close to such a loser even with a ten feet pole.

    Choice, though, is yours.

  • There are no guarantees in life and you can't change the past. If you think he is interested in other women, tell him to find a new girlfriend.

  • The solution is for you to have sex with a prostitute too

    • Loll maybe one day i'll try this

  • Let it go and move on if you can't accept it. At least he was being honest with you. The chances of you finding a virgin male are very slim anyway.

  • If it bothers you so much, go date a virgin guy.

  • Are you asking if time travel is possible? No, it is not.

  • What’s done is done... Gotta move ahead.

  • Is it enough for you to dump him?

  • Give him the greatest sex that he’s every had. Always bring new things to sex. Keep sex interesting and moving forward. You never want to get complacent and boring.
    Ask him what he wants you to do. Be ready for sex whenever he wants to.. We guys love blow jobs and swallowing his load is a must. Spitters ate Quitters.. I get offended if a girl spits it out. I’ll talk to her about it and if she refuses , I’m gone!

  • I think you need to bang a random dude before him

  • You can't do anything about the past. Just let it go and show him you are better in bed

  • Well that time has obviously past. So now focus on the future. Love, happiness a House and babies. It will be amazing. I’d love to be a part of it all. It sounds wonderful.

  • Dump him and find a virgin.

  • was the prostitute/hooker, was that how he lost his virginity? just asking because, i've heard of plenty of guys who admit they lost their virginity by paying for it.

  • Jealousy is the most pointless feeling. You can take away what happened. Make him forget it with amazing sex

  • Your disappointment is understandable, but the past is immutable and there are only two choices which can lead to your eventual happiness: get over it or leave him. Staying jealous will not do anything but make your good feelings for him turn rotten.