I want to be wanted?

Okay... so I have a fella... and he is great but there is something missing... I want him to need me... I want him to get hard at the thought of me... to struggle keeping his hands off me... I want him to want me with so much desperation we don't make it to the bedroom... is this normal?
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  • Yes, absolutely normal.
    But ya gotta understand that feminism - YOUR SISTERS - have made it clear that this type of masculinity is TOXIC. Boys have been raised to be just like little girls. Hell, they even drug them in school if they're not. So we now have this whole crop of girlie-men, and the women are bored to tears.

    You're gonna be on a long hunt, and you're going to have to date up a little. Are you 25 or 29? It makes a difference. I say find a strappin young stud in his thirties that will dominate you sexually, make you thrilled you're woman, and already has some success going and some bucks to entertain you.

    Ever see lions fuck? I'm a goddam lion. LOL

    • Yeah im a total submissive in the bedroom

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  • There is no normal. Everyone is different. He may simply not be that kind of guy. It doesn't mean he's not into you. Alternately, he may also not be into you as much as you think. You can't make someone change how they feel. Try asking him if there is a reason he's not more affectionate.

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  • Here's how you do it, you can thank me later :) ...

    HOW TO KEEP YOUR BOY FOREVER KNEELING AT YOUR FEET!

    • Thank you.. I got 2 covered... I bake and cook fabulously... im adventurous in the bedroom and can go all night so no issues there... but I do nag... I must admit haha thanknyou

    • You're welcome but remember... leave the leaven out of your bread and it will be a flop. All ingredients must be present for success :)

    • i left you a reply on that laurie.

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  • Yes, it is. Just don't let men use you because of it.

    • I won't

  • Damn, who wouldn't want that. I know i do. there's to dreaming.

  • fairly normal. am a guy who wants a woman to feel like that towards me too. many guys want to be desired something along these lines to but saddly almost never happens.

    • That makes me sad... all I want to do is submit to him, and touch him and be touched by him... I feel its so important to be made to feel like that

  • Yes it feels good to be wanted I have no idea why he's not like that with you? I would be like tha if I had a girlfriend.

    • We have very very different sexual appetites... im incredibly kinky with a high sex drive... him not so much

  • Yes, it's normal, sometime I have some of those thougts too.

  • Sounds great he's lucky id want you desperatelytely

    • Thank you x

    • Id wear loose shots around you. every day without underwear to have space for my boner so i can be ready for you

    • +shorts

  • That is how i am with my wife. Sounds like reasonable goals to me.

    • A little reciprocation would be nice

  • Its normal. But if it hasn't happened yet, it probably won't

  • I don't know if it’s normal but it is certainly my reality too. It really sucks!

    • It really does!

    • It’s like you constantly are left feeling like you need more but you can’t quite give up what you’ve got I don't know just being torn all the time

    • It is... I love him... but God I need more

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