I want to fuck my neighbor?

I just moved into my new house in January. My next door neighbor has asked for my number but I ignored him. One night while I was throwing trash out, he approached me. He asked if I was single and if he could visit me. I told him yes. He tried coming over once, but I lied and said I was sleeping. He said he would try to come over at a better time. I am very physically attracted to him, and he seems like a fun guy. We flirt all the time. One morning he was getting in his truck for work. I opened the door while dressed in lingerie and spoke to him. He was immediately intrigued and said he would come over soon. To be honest, I want to fuck him. I am single and I get horny often. But, he's my neighbor... what do you think will happen if we have sex or become romantically involved since we live so close together. I feel like a whore... but my hormones are getting the best of me!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • depending on what you're both looking for...

    get to know each others and push it further, with possible serious relationship:
    then chill, take your time and savor sex while building strong links and contacts by discussing honestly. The subjects of discussions can be picked to grow stronger links over the time. Hobbies, occupations, is a subjects that builds quick links, while subjects like family, future, dreams, projects... that builds strong links.

    directly a strong relationship:
    be really patient and while savoring sex and building those links, be very careful to the way he thinks about it over time
    a guy actually in love will have you carved in his mind
    he'll be able to remember very precise details related to you and what you done before together... when he wakes up you'll often be the first thing he thinks about.
    however this could take time to build up, do not worry if that does not come that way from the beginning, this is normal and needs to be constructed together most the time.

    just balls deep sex and nothing else (yeah it happens and it can be fine):
    make sure both of you knows what you're going for, as for the 2 above cases, savor, but this time... just chill

    regardless of what you want, use protections, savor, and pay attention to what's going on by communicating in total honesty

  • I would go for it however be ready for any impending awkwardness due to close proximity with him. It could be fun for a little while but there is a possibility that either you or him will want more and that could end badly, or not. I would just take that into consideration.

    • I think it would be extremely awkward which is why I am doubtful... but my hormones!!! What if I just invite him over for dinner and a movie? I was thinking about grilling steaks and watching something funny, but no sex. How's that?

    • If your hormones are raging that much, I feel that a night as you described would lead to sex or maybe an awkward situation. It sure is a tricky situation you have yourself in.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nooooooo! You very well may regret it! Everyone I know, myself included who has fucked a neighbor has lived to regret it! One of my friends fucked the hot neighbor guy. Everyone was jealous but then the guy turned out to be a psycho. She had to put him in jail for a month. Several months later, he lives elsewhere and still stalking her! I got romantically involved with a neighbor and he tried meth and lost his mind. I had to call the cops on him. I can't allow him back on my property he is so obsessed with me. DON'T do it.

    • Thanks for MHO:)

  • Enjoying sex freely is a common thing in US and many other cultures. No body will take it seriously or notice anything unfair. In our Indian and particularly Hindu culture sex with any other person except a married life-partner is considered a sin or very dirty act. It is your age to enjoy life as you find OK for you and if you do not find yourself anything wrong in it - enjoy it. It will satisfy your desire.

    • well said and especially given your background. do you feel you would prefer western ways yourself if you could?

    • There mainly two factors affecting our daily life. First is genetic blueprint, and second is social and cultural training we start getting from the moment mother conceive - before the birth. I am born and brought up in Indian Hindu culture and I Love it Naturally.

    • i respect that x

  • Either its convenient and works out well or it falls apart and you guys end up avoiding each other and having to move. Its only been a month, calm down error on the side of caution and become friends first... Ted Bundy was a handsome, good natured guy who worked as a 911 operator. All of his neighbors liked him too... just saying... saftey first

  • They say don't shit where you eat. If it goes badly you'll have to move. But you do you.

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  • Why do you feel like a whore? That's human nature!

    • Because we just met. We barely know anything about each other but yet I want to open my legs to him. That's whore-osity at it's finest! LOL

    • Again, that's human nature. It's normal. To be a whore, you'd have to ask for money anyway.

  • You should go for it. Just be responsible.

  • You might want to get some understanding of his character first. It could be great. If it doesn't work, are you both mature enough to still be good neighbors?

  • Do it.

  • lucky bastard ur neighbour is if ur not butt ugly

  • Just live the moment

  • Sounds like you already know the answer to this one!

  • Is it a statement or a question? No problems, have your fun. Make sure you know the difference between what is "just sex" and eating from the same plate.

  • So fuck the dude

  • be patient

  • Clearly nature is working against you. Just take it slowly so that you don't earn the title of neighborhood sloot face. Wash your pussy and ass everyday and put on clean underwear because this will probably happen sooner than you'd like


  • Both single attractive and you want to fuck him

  • just fuck him enjoy it who cares

  • don't be a slut..

    • I don't want to come off as a slut, but these hormones! I was thinking about grilling a few steaks and maybe watching a funny movie. Good idea?

    • Who cares about being a slit if you don't safely and have fun... So wrong, those crazy standards...

    • My apologies for auto-correct... 'slut' was clear I guess and 'doing it safely' was meant to be written.

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  • Do it

  • This is hot but as the saying goes don’t shit where you sleep, it could come a bit tricky. someone who lives near me gives off A vibe that she might fancy me but not sure. She has a boyfriend too which is a bit strange.

  • Use duct tape

    • oooh, KINKY!

    • you know it;)

  • do it being safe

  • if you like him then why did you ignore him?

    • When he asked for my number he was in front of his friends. I was nervous and just brushed it off as if I didn't hear him lol