İ want to have a child but I am a sex worker ehich country my kid won't hate me becouse of my job?

[Anonymous]

[NewYorkCity]

Right now with your career it is highly irresponsible and selfish to have a child. Your kid will not hate you for the first 5 years, because he is a kid, but ones he goes to school and gets exposed to other kids who are crueler than Satan himself, that's where your problem will begin and it will stay a big problem well beyond his or her 20's. Put yourself into his or her shoes. Would you want your mother to be a sex worker? Would you want to be laughed at and made fun of in school? do you believe you be a happy kid with a lot of good friends when everyone knows that your mother is and let's be truthful and honest here a whore? You cannot bring a child into this world and have a prostitute label attached to you, it will bring you a joy for the first 5 years, because now you are a mother, but it will bring hell to your child both during his/her childhood and adulthood.

Listen I'm not judging you, but I will tell you to change your career if you want to become a mother. Not only that, I'm sure you have witnessed and experienced the worst of man kind, because normal, decent and good men don't go around and pay for sex. I'm also sure your hatred and despise for men is engraved into you, because of everything you have experienced and everything that they have done to you. Meaning if it will be a girl, you will share and program your daughter to hate men, because of YOUR negative experiences with all the bad men (good men don't pay for sex) and God for bid if it will be a boy and he won't have a father around him, now That would be a painful disaster that you are simply not ready for.

[Asker]

Actually i was a escort before than i stoped doing it and then years later i started to think if i have a child and she/he find that out what am i gonna do. They may learn it later becouse there is evidence. And i started being a cam girl to earn a lot money to move another counrt that i can raise my children very respectful to that kind of thinks and i want a cind a husband that respect me and dont make me have to say lie and olso i think i say lie some that it can apperiance some they and every thing can be worse. So if you know a open minded counrtry like that can you reccomend me? And as fas as i know in usa there is many porn stars how do they settle down and build a family then?

[Asker]

Country*

[Asker]

İf i say like some day it can apperiance*

[NewYorkCity]

1. If you want to find a husband that respects you, you have to earn his respect and that might take Years. 2. Yes, right now United States does sound like a good nation to move into, but I would STRONGLY suggest you to move to either Denmark, Norway or Sweden. I live in United States and United States is going down, HARD! I have no choice but to be here, because my family are to stubborn to move anywhere else and they don't want to listen to me, but you still can make a right choice. 3. If you want to find a rock solid Husband/Man and not a 30, 40 or 50 year old BOY or a SIMP, you have to learn how to become submissive woman.

[Asker]

İ mean yes i can be good monogamous wife too but. İ know some country have like open relationship as far as i know its common in spain and i think that if a country has the open reationships ans stuf they probably be restprctful with the sex workers am i right? So i am thinking about moving to spain having open minded childirens and being in a open relationship so my husband not going to think that i am dirty to had sex with many man etc he will be doing sex with another women when ever he want. And our child will grow up in that cultrr that has respect defrent people and defrent cultures

[Asker]

So this is my plan but i am not sure if its leally like that in spain. Or there is better place to go. Do you know any thing about what i am telling?

[Asker]

Really*

[NewYorkCity]

I'm sorry but your plan is Horrible, you be sleeping with whoever you want, your husband will be sleeping with whoever he wants. Do you really expect to have a strong family where honor, respect integrative will be followed? What kind of example will you and your husband set for your children. That girls are nothing more than sex objects and they have to be treated as such and then discarded like a garbage? and man should be treated as a bank account, until he's being fully drain out to zero and then leach to another man's bank account? If this is how you think and this is the type of family you want to have, you shouldn't have kids at all. You living for your own pleasure only, your husband be living for his own pleasure only, then why are you bringing innocent souls from Heaven to this Hell called earth? so they can be raised by streets? instead of nuclear family?

[TipsyFr]

It’s a bit late to take back your past, you’ll just have to live with it. The evidence you speak of is on the internet and any country with an internet connection gives access to said evidence. If you weren’t super famous hopefully nobody will ever know. I’m from France and know a guy, his girlfriend used to be an escort from Romania they‘ve got a kid and are happy. I know and so do many other friends, we don’t badmouth her for it and she makes our friend happy. People have been through some shitty stuff in life it’s how you pick up the pieces that makes a difference, good luck ✌️

[Anonymous]

Really they won't hate you till another child learns of it and teased him about it.

Latter will respect you for working hard for them!

How close are you to a child? Like engages and married or just want one all to yourself?

[Gent207-2]

The customer you breed with could kill you for conceiving a child

[Asker]

Why would he do that?

[Asker]

Where do you live?

[Gent207-2]

Because they don't want to be a dad. Plus Your future kid could kill you out of shame and hate for your work or worse themselves

[Asker]

What country are u in i realy wonder. You think horible omg

[Gent207-2]

USA and believe me I've seen worse for less. You are playing a dangerous game. Please for your sake get out of the sex industry before you try to build a family

[Asker]

Actually i was a escort before than i stoped doing it and then years later i started to think if i have a child and she/he find that out what am i gonna do. They may learn it later becouse there is evidence. And i started being a cam girl to earn a lot money to move another counrt that i can raise my children very respectful to that kind of thinks and i want a cind a husband that respect me and dont make me have to say lie and olso i think i say lie some that it can apperiance some they and every thing can be worse. So if you know a open minded counrtry like that can you reccomend me? And as fas as i know in usa there is many porn stars how do they settle down and build a family then?

[Asker]

Country*

[Asker]

İf i say like some day it can apperiance*

[artgorgeous]

Why do you want to have a child if you already know that this child's future is not happy?

[Nik1hil]

You need to switch careers before having a child.. 🤔

[kellytheman]

Maybe not tell your kid just tell your a telemarketer for men clients and maybe sometimes women if you get calls from them. Maybe find a private place or certain times to do it so he doesn’t know. Maybe the states and certain European countries and Asian that are very sexual would be understandable.

[BigDog1989]

You need to stop doing what you're doing, and you need to not have kids

[ohmyguy]

Not possible if u love your child the love you.. raise with your sensible values.. intelligence and enlightened mindset.. it's better not to expose all the nitty gritty.. obviously.. but to sheltered overprotected n trying to pull off a false narrative by making up. stories to cover this or that narrative will cause crisis upon crisis

[Twalli]

It shouldn't matter. Your kid will have a chip on his shoulder because of what you do, but there's no country that will ensure he won't hate you.

[Asker]

What do you mean by chip on shoulder? İ am not advence on English yet. Can you please explain me

[Twalli]

It means he will believe he has something to prove because of your job. He will probably feel inferior or less than others because of what his mother does. So he will feel the need to prove his birth doesn't define him

[Hanrej]

It's impossible to tell what a child will hate that doesn't even exist yet. People have vastly different likes and dislikes.

I think the more important question is, could you care properly for your child with your occupation?