I want to have sex with my crush!

OK! So I been crushing on this guy for a few years. We flirt and text occasionally. But recently our friendship has taken a slight turn to a deep sexual friendship. I want to have sex with him so badly I even sent him pictures and little video clips of my self naked, which I never do but I've known this guy for 14 years and I'm best friends with his brother and other relatives AND I NEVER INCLUDE MY FACE. so its not proof of me I feel like. But anyway he doesn't really say much about what he wants but he will say "oh yea I like that then a Smiley face emoji". Our relationship is pretty private not many people know we text each other. He usually hangs out with his friends till 10ish every night when I ask him to come out he usually says no. Ill ask him a few times to hang out. Am I just wasting my time with this guy. I've even told him I want sex no strings attach. He then said he's hurt that he's only a piece of meat. Thing is he's a big jokester so I don't know and I being to forward with my sexual feeling I have for him?
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  • Wait, so am I reading this right that you haven't had sex but want to and that's the issue? I don't know how long you've been making advances, but I think you can keep after it for a while while he's still playing along. If he's still evasive then he's probably not interested, and it's in your best interest to stop.

    in my opinion as a woman you can pretty much be as forward as you want (within reason), but ultimately you're responsible for figuring out if you're making someone uncomfortable at which point it's not really right to continue. The rules are obviously different for guys where being forward is being a creeper.

  • If he had any intention of sleeping with you he'd already have jumped on the opportunity. You've already given him ever chance and he just keeps on playing with you... that tells you everything you need to know.

    • "If he had any intention of sleeping with you he'd already have jumped on the opportunity" Not true for shy guys, not true at all.

    • @Virtual_Killer Come on now... if a guy doesn't take the opportunity when she straight up tells him she wants it, then short of raping him, she's not getting anything. If he's that shy then sex with him would be terrible anyways. He's not worth it.

    • Maybe he's not a man whore like yourself. Respect sex after marriage.

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  • he's not complaining so id imagine that if you keep chipping away at him then he'll give.

    I suppose he could be avoid sex for religious or ethical reasons, you might have to get him to take you to dinner first.

    • I been crushing on him for about 8years... and this sexring started 2 months ago.

    • Well you're making progress, stick in there.

  • either your hit or he's got a pussy too. Id suggest finding a man, you ask any real for that we give it to you and thats on my momma. if your hardpressed on ur feelings for him as opposed to a new guy, i know there's plenty of men that can give u what u want and more

  • He's sort of slow at taking a hint. It sounds like he's enjoying his friends' company more than yours, but you're OK when he's finished with them.
    Get him alone and say something like "I'm into you, if you want it. I don't want to waste any more time, if you're don't. If something doesn't happen soon, I'll look elsewhere ".
    Little hints don't seem to be working, but he should understand that.

  • Ehh idk. You stated what you wanted and he kind of "blew it off" so to speak (no pun).

  • Sext me in stead. Haha. If you. both enjoy it, why not keep it up? Show up at his place, or invite him to yours, go to the bathroom, then come out naked. If he doesn't jump you then he is probably batting foe the other team from the closet. Just saying.

    • He lives with his parents. "Momma's Boy" he's shy sometime and I get shy too. I want him to jump me and be aggressive.

    • Not sure why you are going after a momma's boy who still lives at home... Not second guessing you, but guys like that rarely will get aggressive and jump you. Ask him to help you work on your kissing skills and start making out with him, take your shirt off, put his hand down your pants... slip a hand down his pants if he won't take it further. I'll be aggressive and jump you. ;) lol. I don't know if he has it in him to initiate sex honey.

  • You sound thirsty - here's some water.

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  • Girls can have sex with whoever and whenever. You already had sex with him.

    • I didn't have sex with him she most I've done with him is kiss him.

    • I meant in the future you will read this.

    • hahaha.

  • Let him know that you really want sex dont joke or laugh at that time let him know how serious are you and try seducing him any time you were alone