I want to please my boyfriend by giving him head but I gag nonstop every time I try?

Question

What can I do? I can’t even brush my tongue without gagging repeatedly..

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Awww... I actually feel really bad for you! But I think you'll be ok. So what it comes down to is this: You're going to just have to do things a little differently. But don't worry, he will still be just as pleased.

So... please keep in mind... I don't know you, what you're like, your sexual history or values around sex... BUT there is no reason you can't come up with something (between the two of you) that he'll enjoy JUST as much, and that won't have you gagging.

My first suggestion is to use your mouth on the head (whatever you can comfortably do) and use your hand, or he might want to use his own, on the shaft. That is pretty much just as good. He won't be noticing any differences in how much he's loving it. That would basically be the way to go for you on this. Guaranteed it's a compromise he'll be happy with.

Honestly, if you're "hoping to please"... it might sound crazy, but: letting him cum in your mouth and, particularly if you swallow... will increase his pleasure and satisfaction with the whole oral sex experience... WAY more than I think most women realize. If you were to add these "top-shelf" finishing touches... to your "standard procedure" ... and follow the advice above ;your problem is solved! I guarantee you... he'll be pleased. :)

Just work with him, see what he likes.

Mister_E_Alaska · Accepted Answer

The average male penis is over 4 inches and the deepest mouth is 2.5 inches.
Most of the nerves are in the penis tip area anyway.
No need to take him all the way in. But if you want to. You can learn. Use a dildo or even your toothbrush to practice.

AustinMan · Answer

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foxrider77 · Answer

Don’t go as deep, just lick and roll your tongue. Maybe light suction on the top. Then as you get your breathing down go faster with stronger licks.

isupposethisworks · Answer

Well to work on gag reflexs porn actresses choke and choke and choke until your reflexs get used to it they literally have a bucket for the amount the puke. good luck

loveslongnails · Answer

Try chloraseptic to numb your throat, and practice using a dildo that approximates his size. You'll get there.

420guyinpanties · Answer

Maybe there's a compromise maybe there's something else that you might want that he hasn't told you yet. Or AKA another sexual thing that he might want to try how you might be more able to do

Trooper205 · Answer

It can be overcome through practice! Many Girls gag during a blowjob. It's just how the body works! But if you do it often enough, your body will get used to it!

Steve37 · Answer

Try more licking and wet kissing than taking him into your mouth and use your hand to stroke him while you do it to give him more sensation over his full length.