I want to try dry humping with my boyfriend but I'm not sure where to start?

So me and my boyfriend are virgins but we want to start experimenting with sex and what not. I'm very shy and my not sure if I'm quite ready for sex yet. My boyfriend recommended that we try dry humping first. Neither of us have done that before so we're not really sure where to start.
0 3

Superb Opinion

  • Since you're asking me questions everything that you want knowledge I had to go about it first of all start out by letting him know that you want to experience something doesn't mean you want to go all the way you just want to experience it so it's saying that start out slow you can be making out on top of him put your hands on top of his shoulders his chest is it move your hips nice and slow pushing into his hips let him feel what you feel the do it in slow motion with eye contact you grab a hold of your hips probably to place you in the evening a better place if you haven't already figured that out but do it in slow motion I tell you to do it like that so you can start training him because I guarantee that you're going to get in red hot he's going to roll over on top of you and just start pumping the f*** out of you LOL guys have no control what he starts doing that grabbed him by his ear and tell him to slow down this isn't a race it's a marathon you'll know what I mean by that somewhere down the road like I said you're going to have to train him through this whole thing otherwise he will be a wham-bam thank-you ma'am because he will get too excited to learn how to control that to keep you happy and to please you more than once every time that you guys do it

Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't rush things. If you sit on his lap and rub around on his boner he might even have an orgasm. You can also lie on your side with his leg between your two legs and just rub your vulva on his leg. If you are ok with it... it is more fun if you both are naked. As you start to fool around maybe start out by giving him a handjob... ask him to show you how he does it. As you know all young guys masturbate frequently... they just will never admit it.

    • Ok thank. you I'll give it a shot

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don’t wear jeans! Straddle him in leggings or underwear. Him in soft clothing too and gently rub up and down on him.


    When you are ready to move further someone wrote what I thought was really good advice for fingering someone who is shy. Let me know if you are interested.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 15
  • My tips as for where to start, would be whatever the both of you are comfortable with. If one of you doesn't feel ready for something, don't do that just yet then. There is no need to rush!

    Just have fun with it, play around and see what you're comfortable with! 😊

  • Kissing and he will take care of the rest

  • I don't know how old you are so I'll keep this PG. The best way is for you both to have thin shorts with no underwear underneath. Dry humping is basically the same as sexual intercourse without penetration. Start out with fondling to work up to actually humping. When you dry hump, he gets on top with a full erection and you are wet, then simulate going in and out by moving up and down your vagina, through the clothing.

  • Have your boyfriend sut in a chair and sit on his lap Rub yourself over his cock. See how to do a proper lap dance Stop and then go again as long as you want.

  • Start by kissing.. making out.. let him fondle your boobs over dress... Undress eachother slowly.. exploring inch by inch... Only underwear now... Rub his dick if you want.. take his hands and place over your bra.. get in position.. let him rub his toy between your thighs.. hold his hair.. make him to kiss you.. squeeze you.. lick you.. let him dry hump you till you both get finishes.

    • Ok ok thank you

  • Dry humping is fun... normally cum in my pants. Take his dick out.. give him a hand job. Let him finger your pussy. Take it slow... when the moment is right you can lose your virginity

  • Don't bother; it's lame AF

  • Good for you guys starting slowly. Sex is about rhythms and emotion. So just start out making and let it ride. Fingering and handjobs are good way to get used to each other’s genitalia.

    Also, FYI- get on the pill. Take birth control into your hands cuz guys won’t care when we’re in the zone. It’s sad but true.

  • Start kissing him and straddle him while you make out. As you straddle him you can dry hump Him

  • Lay on top of him and rub your pussy over his cock.

  • start by wearing loose clothes, like Sweat pants or such... he can lay on top of you between your legs or you can straddle him... or take turns... start rubbing dick against pussy or visa-versa... Ta-da... dry humping...

    • Ok thanks

  • Hump him like you probably already hump him.
    Which is the same way you hump your pillow, teddy bear, sofa armrest, etc.

    And humping is sex.

  • Start by rubbing his hands on your crotch but tell him the pants stay on

  • Do what arouses you. Take initiative for your own pleasure. Especially important the first time since the guy themselves are inexperienced and making sure you feel good too is added pressure.


    Also be sure to give us an update on how your experience turns out to be later!

    • Thank you I will

  • Sit on his lap

    • Okkk and like do what

    • Glad to hear that 😊