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İ was a sex worker when I was really goung then I quit does people understand me?

İf i told people that specially my feature husband and my children will they no accept me or will understand me?
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  • Disclosing sex work is a common dilemma and can be a scary thing. It’s common to feel afraid of potential rejection, being treated differently, and worrying your loved ones will deal with secondary stigma.

    Deciding if it's safe to tell someone also takes time and it can also be hard to find the right moment to slip in the information, without making it into a big announcement.

    The short answer to your question is: No, not if you weren’t ready to tell him – you didn’t have to.

    The long answer is: It’s your choice and if it’s something you are ready to share with your partners, then you should be able to. You should also be able to choose when that disclosure happens and it sounds like that choice was taken away from you – which is not okay. Your safety is the most important thing when it comes to disclosing that you’ve done sex work. So, when considering telling someone in the future, have a think about whether you will be safe from emotional, mental and physical harm, and go from there.

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  • If you have abandoned old sexual appetites and habits, leave your past in the past. Focus on being a good wife and mother. And maybe your professional experience may give you insight on what a man needs. That adjustment will serve your children as well.

    And your past need not condemn your present or future.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You are going to face a very difficult road to get people to understand and accept you.

  • Depends on the guy some could accept it others couldn't

  • Hard to tell. Too many variables to give you a proper answer. I'd suggest you keep it a secret from your kids.

  • Sex isn't wrong... you did it with your will and for some reason... if raped people can live properly you also can.

  • Can’t tell anything. You should be lucky to get a husband who will accept your past.

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