I was getting a guy's dick out to suck it and he said your hands are cold, warm them up? I said you just take it out, and he said no, warm them up?

Question

Why and was this bossy?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, did he make sure his dick, balls and ass were all nice an clean for you with a shower not long before you started? Does he practice sexual courtesy with you like going down on you as often as he asks for oral himself?

I appreciate he may not have liked the feeling of cold hands on his dick, and it's ok to say so. But in that moment, he really could have just taken care of whipping it out instead of being insistent that you do it. But I also don't see his request as being entirely off-base either.

I think you have to look at all of his sexual behavior - and if he seems selfish when you look at things, then I would say, if he gets bossy in a way that makes you feel scolded and crummy, just get up and leave.

Cmasterson · Accepted Answer

Yes that was bossy because does he expect you to excuse yourself and go to the bathroom run your hands under warm water then continue..

Moeemoee · Accepted Answer

A cold dick is a small dick, and its a little uncomfortable at first maybe. But after a couple seconds you should be able to warm him up, especially if you suck it haha. So the only reason i think he said it is for his own small discomfort. Which kind of makes him an ass yeah considering what you're doing for him

ZanyInternetName · Accepted Answer

Have you ever touched yourself with cold hands? It's uncomfortable, very uncomfortable. I'm on his side here, I wouldn't want a blowjob if the woman has cold hands. It's probably bossy but he's not obliged to let you do it.

accidental-cake-face · Answer

Could be code for "put your finger in my butt"

Lonerguy1234 · Answer

lol at the scenario

Dargil · Answer

1 Because he's a self-centered idiot. 2. Yes. This relationship has no future. Delete him.

Nomad6993 · Answer

Who complains about head wtf

MarcelHxC · Answer

Should have just sexually assaulted him and made him cum so fast his socks flew off

SketchForger · Answer

I like cold hands tbh, adds to the sensation.

Taquito_Slim · Answer

It's probably just a power trip for him, just demand respect that you feel you deserve and make that the bottom line.

Danielleo · Answer

easy. just suck it don't use your hands.

jacal · Answer

Bossy I said yes but at the same time I got it needs to stop being a pussy about it, I don't think he knows that your hands were still warm after soaking his dick.