I was on top of my boyfriend kissing him and I kind of rubbed my part on his while kissing him he didn’t do anything I don't know why?

[Helppleasemaybe]

Like he just kept kissing me maybe a little harder and he said I love you so much but he didn’t really do anything and I’m just confused lol because this guy is always getting a boner just from cuddling with me but I’ve always been the one initiating things by putting his hands on my breasts and giving him a hand job until he came. I don’t know why he never starts anything he’s the one that’s not shy at all I’m very shy. I do appreciate that he’s a gentleman but I just find it odd that he hasn’t tried to start anything. Like I legit made out with him and put him on top of me and he scooted the lower half of his body down. Maybe it’s because he knows that I’m a virgin and we’re at my parents house while they’re in their rooms.

[DIRKINOFF]

Why is this 22 year old dude hanging out with you at your folk's place? Doesn't he have a place of his own?
There are some guys who really get off on deflowering a girl. Other guys want nothing to do with it. Perhaps he is being respectful of your parents while under their roof. Were you both fully clothed when you were grinding your dirty bits together? That could be uncomfortable if he was wearing restricting jeans. That in combination (I'm not saying you're heavy or fat or anything) with your weight on top of him could have been just a bit uncomfortable, making an erection difficult to get. Or maybe the exact opposite is true and that's why he sang a chorus of I love you's, maybe he ejaculated that creamy cum down his leg as he felt the outline of your pussy against his meat sword. Hell do you talk about these things with him?

[Helppleasemaybe]

Yeah we were fully clothed. He already had a boner and I was dry humping him I felt a little bit of it inside me but it was through the shorts because he was wearing shorts. I am 133 pounds by the way

[Helppleasemaybe]

He asked me if I was okay too when I moved and then I just gave him a hug

[DIRKINOFF]

He probably felt your pussy opening to welcome his cock and and blew his load right then.

[Helppleasemaybe]

How do I know lol

[Helppleasemaybe]

I just know that he had a boner he gets a boner easily around me

[DIRKINOFF]

You've made him cum in a paper towel before right? What did his dick do when he came in the paper towel?

[Helppleasemaybe]

He came in a blanket lol I’m not sure I think he just got harder? But I felt it with my hand the dry jumping was different

[COMMODOREII]

@DIRKNOFF back off guy. She doesn't need to hear someone put her and her boyfriend down. I too had a chance of having a really good girlfriend. She was 18 and i was 25. If i stayed with her i wouldn't have wasted 8 years of my life without a bitch who manipulated me and took me for my money only to dump me at the end. They have something better than most people. Plus he is treated her right and if her parents trust him that is a good thing. Stop bastardizing it Sith your negativity.

[DIRKINOFF]

@commodoreii listen here you punk ass bitch, mind your own. Glad you're not here now or I'd also the piss out your mouth. Ain't nothing I've said put her or her dude down. Be gone bitch!

[DIRKINOFF]

@helppleasemaybe that guys ignorant, I'm bringing up valid points that aren't always thought of when you are young and your heart candles are ignited with the passion of love. Anyway when a dude cums his dick sort of convulses. Kind of like throwing up, you know how you kind of jerk and spasm as you vomit... Really quite similar. The thing that makes me think he ejaculated in his shorts is that you said he repeatedly said I love you and kissed you harder. For me when I come i almost always pull the woman I'm with tighter to me like I'm trying to become one with her. As he was kissing you he was pressing into you... Just a thought.

[TadCurious]

I think you're right about what explains his hesitancy to take things further at this point. He doesn't want to give the impression that he's only after sexual things AND it's weird doing that kind of thing in your parents' house when they're home. But you can be assured that his boner is an "affection erection" and not just a purely physical one.

[TadCurious]

Thank you for MHO!

[Helppleasemaybe]

No problem

[dwcl99]

He sounds like he is very respectful of you and doesn't want to push you into anything, or wants to make sure that you are comfortable doing stuff (which you are).

I know that I always ask before doing anything. Even if I know that I can literally do anything at any time with a girl I'm with, I still ask her before having sex, or before taking off her bra. Its just how I am, and might be how he is too.

It doesn't mean that he doesn't want to do things with you, but he might feel that he doesn't want to take advantage of you, or push you into anything that you may regret.

I'd recommend that you talk to him, and tell him that he basically has blanket access to do whatever he wants to do to your body, when he wants. You likely have to reassure him repeatedly that he has this blanket permission.
Or when the two of you start kissing and getting into it, you can make sure that you tell him that its ok for him to do what he wants with you, or stuff like that.

Also, he may be afraid of getting you pregnant, if he isn't wearing a condom, so that could be why he got soft while dry humping, bc that fear can sometimes interfere with a boner.

But good luck.

[Gwenhwyfar]

That’s amazing!!! Dry humping is fun 😍.

He’s being super respectful of your feelings and he doesn’t wanna pressure you.

[Helppleasemaybe]

But I told him how wet i get around him

[Helppleasemaybe]

I even have him a knee while doing it and he still didn’t try anything new

[Gwenhwyfar]

He thinks you don’t wanna go further. You’re gonna have to take the lead. Guide his hand to your kitty.

[Aaron_Stone]

@Gwenhwyfar it may sound like amazing situation but when you're the one affected by it becomes hard to deal type situation. Social conditioning of not appearing Pervert and also seeming interested in her (sexually) while considering if she will find it abusive vs less affectionate is very hard. Its like walking edge of sword. It's hard for men to find balance since every woman is different whose mind they can't read. You will understand what I'm by simply imagining yourself in position of man. Take proposing , Dating and initiating sexual advances as a man think yourself as men. Women are lucky they don't to do the this hardship, all they need to do is accept or reject the advances.

[Aaron_Stone]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw

[Aaron_Stone]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XMv9PljLC7o

[Aaron_Stone]

He is conscious that you will find him aggressive or pervert.

[Aaron_Stone]

Women often reject sexual advances that's major blow to sexual assertiveness.

[Aaron_Stone]

Tell him , he can do whatever he wants with your body. You are his and won't mind if he lusts or act sexual with you.

[Orangeandturquoise]

I guess he's shy sometimes too?

[COMMODOREII]

Have you asked him?

[Helppleasemaybe]

No I’m too shy lol

[COMMODOREII]

Try talking to him.

[BoxySama]

Conversation, anxiety is Silly TBH

[BoxySama]

Seriously, at this stage in life, this is extremely valuable in this instance

[BoxySama]

don't let those social place you did and Xavier you get to you, talk about what you want, that is going to be the person you are going to mix energy's with, you should not be afraid of them

[Helppleasemaybe]

What do you mean?

[BoxySama]

Social pressure you and anxieties*

[BoxySama]

Talk to him, don't worry about things You should be comfortable with him, what is he going to say or think, these things are very important if you want to sleep with someone

[BoxySama]

Follow me back so we can talk in DM

[Benjamin_HM]

it could lead to sex. be careful

[Hotboy_booblover]

Strange..

[Browniev]

can't even imagine how hard he's trying lol

[Helppleasemaybe]

He had a boner but still didn’t do anything

[Browniev]

Me too.. but in my case i just caant do anything lol...

[SpeshalK97]

doo doo doo doo