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A week ago I agreed to experiment sexually with a former friend of mine. He's older and we've been friends for a few years until last night. I've never experienced oral sex or anything like that and I'm already 21 so he volunteered to show me how good it feels. We agreed on everything beforehand. There would be no penetrative sex, only foreplay. He was allowed to finger me and give me oral and I would give him a hand job. It was what I was most comfortable with.
We get to his place and the foreplay starts. He starts to finger me but he was rough and it hurt so I told him to stop. He told me to take off my clothes. I lied down and he got on top of me, kissed my breasts then licked and sucked my nipples. He fingered me gently while he did it and I got really wet cause it felt good. That went on for a little while then he ate me out. He told me he wanted me to cum all over his face. I did the best I could to cum but he was so rough that I couldn't. It felt okay but it probably would have felt better if he wasn't so rough.
Afterward I made good on my end of the deal and gave him a handjob. I used my saliva so it wasn't dry or anything and did the best I could. He wanted to play with my breasts while I did it but they were sore so I said no. I did the handjob for at least twenty minutes and he told me he can't come from just a handjob alone and even with sex it takes him a long time to cum.
He said he would be able to cum if he rubbed his penis between my vagina lips so I said okay. He put on a condom and told me to lie down and he got on top of me. I reminded him not to put it in. He started to rub it on me but he kept pushing at my entrance so I told him that it hurt and to stop doing it.
He didn't stop and when I tried to push him off and get up he held me down and started to penetrate me. I told him stop and that I didn't wan
What Girls & Guys Said
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im sorry this happened but maybe you shouldn't screw around in the future wait till your married and yes it is partly your fault for leading him on and it is his fault for not respecting your aggreement
Some of these comments are absolutely repulsive. This was obviously someone she trusted, not some random off the street. They agreed on what was and wasn't ok, and he took advantage. Hell, it doesn't matter if she agreed to sex initially. The second NO came out of her mouth, he should've stopped. This was rape, point blank period. Quit trying to justify it with idiotic "she was asking for it" statements. She could be standing naked in the middle of the road and still isn't asking for it.
And for any geniuses who want to comment asking why I'm anon, it's because I don't feel like have my inbox bombarded with people wanting to have extended arguments today.
I am sorry, I don't respect you... The situation you have had is VERY harsh, but noone did it; YOU created this conditions with ur hands... I am sorry this is truth and I had to say it.
Regardless of you respecting her or her decision and life choices, has nothing to do with her being raped or not, get over yourself and take your personal opinions and moral code out of the situation it has nothing to do with it. That would be like saying just because you walk into a bad neighborhood, you deserve to be shot in the head.
Yes it's all your fault. Stop playing the victim.
You should be beaten within an inch of your fucking life
its never your fault!
It isn't your fault but I think you should have done this exploring with a boyfriend only... And not with someone you don't have feelings for...
You had it coming cause this guy probably just like at you as a hook up... But a boyfriend would understand cause he would know you better...
You made some stupid decision of doing these things with a friend... so he took advantage in this situation...
You wrote like an article that is very good English and very explaining of the situation.
You were in the hands of an animal that night he was selfish, but you were too vulnerable and weak that is why he took advantage of you, i would say you would have not done that fooling around, because you already know where it will take you unless he is someone you trust.
Ignore shit comments from people on here, you will receive some.
I am not touching this with a ten foot pole, i don't think it could legally be hold as rape anyway, maybe semantically though.
there is Google for clearing your doubt... why the hell you went to be raped by this dude... its mostly your fault... be careful with trusting guys the next time...
I didn't go to be raped by anyone, I'm not psychic so I couldn't predict that that would have happened.
In this case yes id say it was partially your fault. You said he was rough though out the entire experience. You had amble time to stop things before you got to that point and yet continued to allow things to happen...
She, at least knows her limits and respects herself. This guy didn't care about either.
It is partially your fault because you consented to other sexual acts as well.
Sooo let's say you consent to sexual intercourse with a girl. Does that automatically mean you consent to her penetrating you anally with a 12" strapon?
technically, yes.
and why does it have to be twelve inches? Do they actually have those?
@snowangle exactly!
Lol yes, they make strapons that big. @tenchu11 Thanks pal!
Wait a second, do you actually use them too? No man will ever be able to satisfy you then.
No I don't, but that's not exactly your concern, is it now?
Relax, I am just asking. How would you know it exists then?
I've been to adult stores. :D