I was wrestling with my guy friend and he pinned me down and I felt his boner... why did he have a boner?

so i was hanging out with my guy friend and he said "if we wrestled, who would pin the other down first". I jokingly said "i would." And we started wrestling. After a bit he shoves me on my back pins my arms above my head and pins me down, kegs on either side of me. I was struggling underneath him, but i felt his boner... i didn't mention it, but he would let me up for like 15 minutes. So why did he get a boner?
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  • I don't know how much under 18 you are but I can tell you that it's normal for him to get a boner and he probably finds you attractive. When I was younger I would wrestle girls and get a boner, it was the intimate contact with a beautiful girl that made it happen for me. I still enjoy now but now I understand why but back then it happened and it felt good so did it more all through puberty

  • Lots of close contact with you, plus he probably felt the warmth of your body against his dick which would cause a boner. That and with your arms pinned above your head, there'd be a great view of your boobs.

    • Thanks for best answer! Have you feels his dick again since then?

    • Luckily no

    • No not interested in this guy, huh?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • He's a guy and he's right next to a gal. Teen boys have a boner more often than not I believe. It's called testosterone. That hormone causes those things to pop right up at the slightest hint of sex or for no reason at all.

    • Sometimes just our underwear or pants/shorts rubbing down there for even a few seconds can cause us to get boners, it's ridiculous

  • Guys can't help it, especially at that age, touching a female. It happens automatically, not by choice.

    • MHO right here.

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  • The boner is like 99,8% because he wrestled with you.
    Also the way he announced it looks very much like that.
    I still remember when I wanted to get my girlfriend to do that with me the first time xD
    (Luckily we're both soooo into that stuff now ^^)
    Well in fact, I didn't use words, I just went from holding hands to arm wrestling and then to wrestling and she just went with it. But that bascially was like 'Let's find out who's stronger ;-)' but without words. Therefore I think there was that intention behind it.
    Legs either side is an indicator that he was aware of his boner (guys are aware of that 97% of the time) and didn't want you to notice or see (with spread legs, it would have been clearly visible). Also I'd consider sitting on the belly of a female friend who's not my girlfriend as too intimate.
    Not letting you up for 15 minutes is another indicator that he enjoyed it.

    So as horrible as it sounds, I'm pretty sure that he's attracted to you and that he wanted (and received) sexual pleasure from that experience.

    Now it's up to you on how to handle that.
    -Repeat until you have a relationship (The closer the outcome, the sexier, so start doing sport) :D
    -Carefully tell him that you're thinking that he might have thought as I've described above, let him explain himself (although it's pretty clear in my opinion) and then, if you want, tell him that wasn't so great and that you would not like him to do that in the future.

  • Wrestling? ? How old are you? Three? Lol

  • It's so the penis can penetrate deep inside to ejaculate sperm to get the girl pregnant.

  • It doesn't take much to give us an erection, if I even smell a woman it jumps to code red, luckily for me I'm disabled and it is hard to see, I occasionally will probably show signs of discomfort though.. :P

    • That is not what happened here and you know it.

    • Uhh.. What exactly happened here? Because this has already been confirmed

  • If you're a woman, it'd be hard not to get a boner while wrestling, especially if you're pretty. On the other hand, guys can get boners just from doing something active and exciting. We get boners randomly.

  • You made him horney for sex.

  • His dick didn't think you were "just wrestling"

    • ^ this ^

  • how could he not have gotten one?

  • Cause that's quite a lot of physical contact and he'shot you pinned down arms over head..

  • It's normal, sometimes when i wakeup i feel like there's a tree on my body..

  • because wrestling around with a girl does that to a guy

  • i don't think this is a good position to be in.

  • It can be very exciting to be wrestling.

  • Either he enjoys being dominate over females or the wrestling was an excuse to get that intamite with you without letting you know he likes you.

  • it happens

  • Grappling involves intimate physical contact, and for this guy the boner is the name of the game.

  • well guess why he is your friend... .

  • The answer's in the question.

  • Well for the obvious, he finds you attractive!

  • he likes you.

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