I woke up in just my undergarments after blacking out, I was out drinking with a male friend who also blacked out. Did something happen?

[Anonymous]

He was fully clothed and wasn't under the douvet but I was under the douvet. I asked him if anything happened and he said as far as he's concerned nothing happened at all. What would it mean if he lied to me

[Inexpensivefurniture]

If you are really concerned you could go to the hospital and have a rape kit done. They would be able to tell if there is any semen or lube from a condom present

[buddysboy16]

If nothing truly happened he would have just said no. He's hiding something

[Asker]

Is it wrong for someone to say nothing happened when something did

[buddysboy16]

Definitely!

[jaybee281]

The real question is not if you got blacked out - real question is - did you get blacked?

[Bricealan]

Well, I guess he lied to you ! Were you feeling 'stretched' and 'burning' and maybe wet? Any semen? If not, probably nothing happened

[douride2]

Something definitely happened. I would bet he is lying to you.

[Asker]

I've been in this position before where I've woken up in just my undergarments

[Asker]

Is it bad if someone lied about it?

[douride2]

Best quit putting yourself in this position.

[Asker]

I never try to, but it's happened before and my friend said nothing happened either

[Iron_Man]

Ask him don’t get drunk like that anymore

[Asker]

I asked him and he said as far as he's concerned nothing happened, so basically no

[Iron_Man]

So that’s it then if you’re really concerned go to a doctor

[Dchrls78104]

Better get to a doctor to find out for sure!

[vald9inches]

Maybe you got hot and took them off

[Asker]

That's what I thought might have happened, I've done something similar before where I've woken up like this and a friend said nothing had happened

[vald9inches]

So either all your friends are in on some kind of conspiracy or you just got hot and took them off lol ita usually the simplest answer 😂

[DaviRon]

Do you want something to happen?

[Asker]

Not at all, I have a boyfriend

[DaviRon]

Okay. Then it's better not to overthink about it and not to black out with male friends.

[Asker]

That's what I'm gonna try keep not doing, should I tell my boyfriend

[DaviRon]

Ohh.. only if your boyfriend is that open minded. I would get mad at my girlfriend if something like this happens.

[Asker]

I think he'll be mad, I'm scared because I love him so much

[DaviRon]

You guys slept in same bed?

[Asker]

I woke up next to him yes, I blacked out for around 2nhalf hours then I was awake talking to my boyfriend over the phone, we had an argument that night

[DaviRon]

Oh fuck. Argument + slept with another guy in just undergarments! Only tell your boyfriend about this if you're ready to face his reactions. I think it's better to hide this. Just this one.

[Asker]

I'm so scared , I want to say it but I'm afraid of losing him.

[DaviRon]

Then proceed. I would like to know how he reacts.

[Asker]

I think I will do it today

[DaviRon]

All the best

[Twalli]

In what way?

[Lostguuy]

Ughhhh trust is a tough one

[Anonymous]

You clearly have a drinking problem if you drank that much and took off all your clothes

[Anonymous]

Only way to know for sure is to go to the hospital and ask for a rape kit.