I won't let my boyfriend watch me masturbate?

It really makes him mad... he's always asking to watch and I always say no. Is this a normal thing that men want?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Men like watching women enjoy sex because men want women to enjoy sex so that they will WANT sex more often. Why does it bother you that he wants to watch? A lot of women get a little embarrassed thinking that it will make the men feel needed, but that's not the case. Masturbation, is normal, healthy, and recommended for both sexes, even while in a relationship.

    But it is wrong of him to be upset with you, that's really not different than trying to tell you what you can do with your own body.

  • Masturbation is alone time, not performance time. I know it turns some guys on, but they need to get over it.

  • I think it's pretty common. If he's there why not let him help or choose something other than masturbating?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Watching a girl masturbate is one of the sexiest things there is... but it isn't sexy when she does it "for you"... because girls will change how they act. I prefer watching a girl when she doesn't know anyone is watching.

    He shouldn't be mad. That's a very childish little boy mentality. Tell him to grow up and stop getting mad because you don't get your way.

  • Masturbation is something very personal. The fact that you won't let him watch means you are not letting him in. You are keeping him emotionally at arms length. There is a distance between you two and you won't let him cross that distance. That might be why it makes him mad. I might be wrong too.

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  • yea, maybe just give in one time

  • i don't know that it's normal that he wants to watch but i think it's certainly in your right to not want him to watch and he should be ok with that.

  • I love to watch, and helping is so sexy and a huge turn on... I think it's normal to watch your S. O. masturbate.

  • Why won't you let him watch?

    • It's just meant to be a solo act...

    • Says who... My partner and I do this all the time

    • Well that's you and your relationship. This is me and mine...

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  • you are with holding what could be a very intimate moment between you so i would imagine he is upset but still its your choice

  • Lots of boys do. Sometimes I say, sometimes no.

  • Prude

  • Shit, I would get mad too
    Especially if she watches me jerk off
    I believe in reciprocation

    I want this haha

  • It's normal that he wants to watch but it's not that he gets angry when you don't let him

  • Is it a normal thing that men want? Yes.
    Pretty sure you fall in the minority.

  • quit being selfish

  • Well then let him watch through video :P

  • I mean some people are into it, honestly I don't know


  • Why you a shame of him watching you masturbate

  • Men do like that he's not alone on wanting to see it

  • My ex girlfriend love for me to watch her masturbate it was very intimate you have to be very comfortable in your own skin in order to enjoy that with your partner and she was very comfortable in her own skin

  • We like seeing you get pleasure.

  • Yeah, let him to see you doing it. It would turn him on for sure :)

  • its s turn on for him and yea its not weird at all so yea

  • yeah I like to watch

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