This guy should treat this woman as a arch enemy. He should do his absolute best to never think of her again, to practice teaching himself and his mind to immediately think of something else anytime the thought of her pops into his head, he should move on and date lots of girls meet other women and find another girl.
He should never talk to her again and he should despise and look at her as a tramp now. She slept with a guy after 2 days, he should slap himself in the face and cuss himself out if he EVER even entertains the thought of getting back together with her or even thinks about calling her.
There are 3.5. BILLION women on this planet. Knowing this one has made him miserable. You can do better than that. Tons of ladies would make him feel loved and feel desirable and good about himself and he'd be willing to do anything for them. Grieve and then move on. Find a better partner. This girl sounds awful.
Move on, don't give this girl the honor of even thinking about her. Let her memory die. She isn't worth it.0 0 0 0But will some people call him loser and insecired if he leavrs her for this issue, as many may she she does'nt owe him anything and she is allowed to lose her virginty to whomever she wants. And also some may say she did it during their separation so she is not guilty for it. Is it true
None of this negates how he should feel about her and move on. She should be dead to him and he should despise her. Don't try and make me agree with anyone sleeping with someone 2-days after a break up.
Yes I agree with it. So, there is no way for the girlfriend to resolve this?
It seems clear to me that the only reason that she had sex with her coworker was out of spite, she felt terrible that you would leave her after 2 years because of sex and she wanted to make you feel just as terrible as she did. It seems like she did just that. With that being said i think you have a right to be mad and should take some time to really think about yourself and your values and what’s important to you. With that being said you two were broken up at the time that she had sex with her coworker so technically she did nothing wrong, if you love this girl i would consider this a learning experience, if you decide that this is to much for your relationship to recovery from i would also take this as a lesson and start fresh with another girl.
0 0 0 0Yes its sound justified and its her life she can do whatever she does with it n she does'nt owe her virginity or sex to anyone. But considering the emotions of the boyfriend after this relavations , is he not right to feel like he is not attractive in her eyes and is a loser as he was not able to impress or win her heart in 3 long years which this co-worker did it in only mere 3 days. Will she repeat it again in future?
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0 7He might had a part in triggering her foolish behavior when he left her, but she still acted like a slut, for given herself so easily to some random guy.
0 0 0 0Humans don't always think logically
0 0 0 0well that would be a girl i'd get out of my life asap. like not even hesitating for a second, cause i can't waste my time on people like that and i already wasted more than enough with her at that point.
0 0 0 0This reminds of a similar experience, under a very different context. My advice, cut any form of communication with her, not before telling her all she needs to hear.
0 0 0 0Only a super dumbass waits.
0 1 0 1He is justified to feel hurt.
0 0 0 0He's lucky to find out now he wasted years waiting for a girl who really just isn't very sexually into him. He might have married her first.
He should move on, and work on himself.0 2 0 0
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