If a girl asked you to degrade her with name calling, would you?

[05Jueey]

By saying hurtful things to her

[Anonymous]

tell her to call herself them. there's less diffculty there making her admit them should work just as well and she won't have memories that she could twist around when she's upset. Tell her you want her to degrade herself for you.. or something like that.. and remember to say she's beautful outside the bedroom... this is just how I appreciate it.. because my boyfriend is into doing that to me but.. doesn't want to truly upset me so we do it that way, and he is so final on me being goregous outside of the bedroom because he knows how willing I am to try for him.

[Anonymous]

They mostly end up like "err kneel you.. Uh bad lady.. You Slut oh I'm sorry is calling you a slut ok"

[0112358]

You kind of, imho, need to discuss before hand if certain words are good or bad triggers. Words that seem equivalent, one may be upsetting while the other really gets them going.

[detlef]

Depends on what she means by "degrade." You can talk dirty to a girl without "degrading" her. Saying things like slut, bitch, whore, cumslut, etc., doesn't have to be "degrading" at all, it can be elevating in a sense, and very hot. Between understanding adults there's nothing intrinsically insulting about those terms.

If she wanted me to say truly insulting or humiliating things, then no, I wouldn't do that, for example "stupid," "ugly," "pigfaced," anything racist, anything shaming her body size, etc.

[05Jueey]

Slut, bitch and whore are not words I consider to be "degrading"

[detlef]

I agree. Surprising to read the other perspectives on this page.

[MrOracle]

I've dated girls that enjoyed humiliation as part of sex play (she liked to feel dirty - it turned her on), but of course, there was an understanding of respect between us, and it was only done in the context of sex.

[AustinMan]

Not by saying hurtful things but if she gets turned on by degradation, I'll gladly oblige.

[jomu0136536]

No i wouldn't...

[a1983]

Hell yes. I'm into it. Only if she truly liked it though.

[05Jueey]

Hot.

[a1983]

Would you degrade yourself as well?

[05Jueey]

I don't know. Depends how

[a1983]

Well, I mean verbally as it relates to the question, but any way really. Or do you just want to hear it from the guy?

[Longjacketanx]

Maybe during sex but I would never mean it, and I'd make that clear to her. I prefer compliments and stuff more though and it would turn me on to see her smiling.

[teawrecks]

Define hurtful

[zorro8888]

I know some people have a degradation kink, and I don't look down on it but it's not really my kind of thing. It wouldn't be easy for me to be all affectionate and loving one second then start name calling her the next.

[Sean_soccer]

I would but it would not be serous stuff, I would say things like "Man, your trashy er that that garbage truck that comes every friday" in a joking, witty, having fun way

[Nuqood]

I've been practicing treating people like shit my whole life, so yeah I would.

[RachelBrigs]

Lmao

[Prof_Don]

If that's what she liked... I can abide to calling her a worthless slut if it got her off.

[Anpu23]

if she was into it, then yes of course

[Phoenix98]

No of course not.

[javi89]

Fuck yeah! I would degrade the shit out of that little cum bucket whore !!! ;)

[Nick_D]

LOL :D

[jacquesvol]

Not my kind of girl.

[Attractive_Guy]

^ +1

[SpeakinCLouds]

That is actually hot of course.

[DamnCurtis]

I couldn't muster courage. I'm too nice.

[ThisAndThat]

Probably not it's not in my personality.

[NightOwl88]

It's not in my nature to that

[Nick_D]

I think the question sux. If she wanted me to call her degrading names it is not hurtful to her but arousing

It may be hurtful for someone else but to her it is a turn on

[WaltLewis]

Only during sex

[WaltLewis]

Or if i just feel like letting 'you fat slut bag' roll out my tongue

[Sabretooth]

no. i wouldn't. i may through a few insults, but i won't go that far.

[Amur8711]

I don't think I could.

[Anonymous]

In general? Probably not.

In a sexual context? Not if she's a good girl.

If she's a dirty little dumb fat slut who tries to pretend she's good, then obviously we'd need to discuss that, punish her, and then treat her as she deserves.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I would say get on your knees and take this load like the dirty little whore you are

[05Jueey]

That's light

[Anonymous]

No if I'm with her it's cause I love her and c no flaws she is perfect to me in every way an it would just hurt me to say bad things to her

[idkwtftoputhere]

lmfao

[Opinion Owner]

What dose imfao mean?

[Anonymous]

Fuck that!

[Grace_Rdz]

I agree, fuck that! cx

[Anonymous]

Like what, calling her fat?

[05Jueey]

Yus.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know I'd be afraid of hurting her feelings. haha