Exclusivity entails a commitment by both parties. Are you worthy?
What exactly do you bring to a relationship that would be considered high value? You need to be able to articulate this as a high value guy will expect it. Tell us what the guy gets in return for exclusivity.
Girls are the keepers of sex.
Guys are the keepers of commitment.
Don't be giving up yours 'till you get at least a little of his.1 2 0 0Amen
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If they say sexual exclusivity, It's just for sex. Had a girl I met that said the exact thing the next morning after we had condomless sex for the first time.
We weren't seeing anyone else at the time, if any of us ever do, just use condoms, and we can revert to them too.0 1 0 0
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(24)I typically go with the assumption that she wants some kind of connection. Sometimes it's just because she likes sleeping with me and doesn't want STDs. I have made that assumption of relationship, because we were exclusive, had sex without condoms, hell, I met her parents and had slept over there. We went out on occasion, but one day when I was saying how happy I was that she was my girlfriend, she smacked me down to about 2 inches tall "what, I'm not your girlfriend, we're fuck-buddies".
Didn't feel like there was anything else to say after that. Just never see or talk to her again and pursue other people who would think more highly of me then a valued stunt cock with cuddling potential.0 0 0 0She may as well be, for me there is no functional difference.
0 0 0 0I voted Yes, but she would have to be explicit about agreeing to be a girlfriend officially.
0 0 0 0You need a third answer which is:
Discuss those matters, and get on the same page.0 0 0 0This pretty much says to the guy. The girl doesn't want to see him with other women, and gives the impression she wan't a lot more from the current relationship. Also sexual exclusivity can usualy only be expected in a more serious relationship.
You can alwaus ask but can't exactly expect it in a non-serious relationship. At least thats how I see it.1 0 0 0Well, it should be safe to believe that she wanted to be your girlfriend. If that is, instead some kind of sexual kink or whatever, she can very well go fuck herself.
0 0 0 0Lol what
I mean, if with sexual exclusivity she wants to be your only source of sexual pleasure without you being her SO, it could be that it's a dominant kink of hers. If that's not the case and a relationship is born, sexual exclusivity should come as a no brainer, otherwise, she should jump off your dick.
Sounds like a friend with benefits to me. I would only do that if she is actually my friend and not just a woman I know, but I wouldn't think she wants more than that. She just wants me to be sexually exclusive to her.
0 1 0 0yeah, I would assume she wanted us to be an item.
0 0 0 0I don't do casual sex or fuck buddy type stuff, either she is my girlfriend and its esclusive, or she isn't getting in my pants, no exceptions.
0 3 0 1Yup it is. What’s the difference?
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