If a girl asks me very quickly about my relationship status to find out if I am single and then asks about fetish's that means she likes me right?

[Kaneki05]

This is more a rhetorical question but wouldn't mind seeing some opinions.

[Nomina]

I wouldn't say that. Sounds to me more like wanting to know if you're single to sleep with, but not so much that she likes likes you.

[Kaneki05]

True, still a like though so I would count it.

[Nomina]

Yeah, she's interested in at least sex. So yeah, it counts.

[Guy13]

It would seem to be a well drawn conclusion...

[sassy_receptor]

not at all

[Kaneki05]

Why not?

[sassy_receptor]

because nothing she said even hints at her liking you. she was probably asking if you were single so she wasn’t overstepping any boundaries. you can ask a guy or guy friend about sex out of curiosity and have zero interest in wanting to have sex with him.

[Kaneki05]

Hmm doubt it, mostly I think she was doing what I do, ask about it to see if we are compatible or not. With the only reason to ask such things is because one may want to like the other. Otherwise why ask so quickly and within a very short time of knowing each other. Personally I know myself wouldn't ask some these questions if I didn't think I could like them in someway. Because lets say it was a girl who wasn't attractive to me but was sorta a friend I wouldn't be bothered to ask such questions. But hey maybe she's not like myself and just asks randomly for no reason. Though if we are getting more specific I was getting vibes all day. Plus she even asked me do I wanna go for food or something implying she wanted to spend more time with me.

[sassy_receptor]

i gave you my honest opinion as a woman who knows women and how we think. if you want to be in denial or hold on to this belief that she likes you, so be it.

[sassy_receptor]

“she’s doing what i do” you’re a MAN not a WOMAN. men and women are not the same nor do we think the same. once that fact settles in you won’t have to ask questions like this anymore.

[Kaneki05]

I am genderfluid but shruggie and don't think that's very helpful advice anyway. Just because someone's a woman don't mean they can't think in similar ways to man or visa versa. If that was true then there would be no such as LGBT or men who make fashion designs that women love. I am not in denial you maybe right she may not like me after all I am just asking a question. I never said she 100% likes me. And also you weren't there so there is also that judgement you cannot make.

[anon1903]

Agreed

[Blackcupcake]

nope