If a girl brokes her hymen during oral sex.. Will she remain virgin or loose her virginity?

[think_different]

[CountessSarah]

The hymen and virginity are not the same thing, one is part of anatomy the other is a concept, a title.

Anyways, hymen or no hymen, oral sex counts as no longer being a virgin.
Any penetrative sex or rubbing, regardless of which role the individual plays means they're no longer a virgin.

[think_different]

That's really a deep down information...

[think_different]

But what if boyfriend breaks the hymen by inserting his fingers in vegina.. That also called lost of virginity?

[CountessSarah]

Yes.

[cuttl]

For chastity: No longer a virgin (due to the oral sex, not the breaking).
Medically: Still a virgin.
Either way: The more I have learned about the hymen, if you have broken it during sex, you are doing it wrong.

[think_different]

Really.. 🤔 so hymen should be broken before sex or what?

[cuttl]

The hymen is generally supposed to stretch. If you broke it, you were probably being too rough.

[think_different]

Oh.. I always heared its meant to be broken.. When u hv sex or doing extreme exercises.. Sm girls do hv stretchable hymen but not all

[Coconutpie]

As long as there doesn't go a dick in her vagina she is virgin. The hymen can break because of a lot of things, doesn't make you deflowered.

[think_different]

Thats cool

[jacquesvol]

As long as there doesn't go a dick in her body anywhere she is virgin.

[Coconutpie]

@jacquesvol so also ear and nostril?

[jacquesvol]

@Coconutpie If your ears and nostrils are that big...

[Coconutpie]

@jacquesvol how exciting. But no, his dick didn't go in her vagina = still a virgin.

[jacquesvol]

Penis in mouth or anus voids V-cards too.

[Coconutpie]

@jacquesvol since when

[jacquesvol]

@Coconutpie Since the idea of virginity was invented.

[Coconutpie]

@jacquesvol Hahaha I am learning so much on this site

[think_different]

@coconutpie its like this.. U carry on with anal to make sure u r still virgin 😜

[Coconutpie]

😂😂😂😂 Too bad I am not a virgin anymore, otherwise I would totally do that. #virginforever

[think_different]

😂😂😂😂 hard luck..

[Dargil]

Not likely to happen. A tongue isn't strong enough, though fingers are.
Besides, virginity ends only by penis-penetrating intercourse, vaginal or (I say) anal. Virginity is not a flap of skin. It is about intent.

[think_different]

Cool

[jacquesvol]

Broke her hymen during oral sex? That guy must have had a giant and sharp tongue.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA

[think_different]

Hahhaa.. Can have steel fingers also 😜

[techmomma]

No hymen no virginity period end of conversation. Having intimate relationship before your ready is dangerous because a guy might be trying to break your hymen to convince you your not a virgin so just give it up anyway. Tread carefully with what you consider "nonsex" acts. Your virginity is yours to give not for some guy to take.

[think_different]

Okay @techmomma hope my girlfriend understand this.. ☺️

[techmomma]

I guess I need to explain better. If a female is penetrated to the point her hymen is broke then she is not considered a virgin. A penis has nothing to do with it. What about lesbians? How do they loose their virginity?

[ushagomez]

It all depends on your definition of virginity and of being sexually active. Many people are sexually active still virgin.

[think_different]

Well they rub their vegina to each other till point of satisfaction.. And some use toys too.. That sex make them loose virginity

[jacquesvol]

A hymen can be stretched or ruptured without ever being touched

[trisarahtops94]

Virginity is a social construct, not a biological thing. A girls hymen can "break"/stretch doing MANY things other than sex. Like doing gymnastics/horseback riding. The social definitely is regarding if someone has had vaginal intercourse. So if a girl has had vaginal sex, she's no longer a virgin.

[Listening5]

I love the experts we have on here

[trisarahtops94]

I never claimed to be an expert. I'm a woman who has a vagina and am speaking from my own experience/knowledge. 🙄

[ushagomez]

The normal definition of virginity is that you have not had a penis inside your vagina. It has nothing to do with your hynen being in tact or not.

[think_different]

Well.. Is it same with case of dildo?

[ushagomez]

A dildo is not a penis. It is just a fun toy that is penis shaped. So not matter how many dildos youvuse you are still a virgin until the first time that you take a guys penis inside you.

[think_different]

Cool

[Warmapplecrumble]

To me she is not a virgin if she had oral, anal sex.

But the proper definition is vaginal intercourse. So someone can have anal sex with 100 men and still be a virgin.

The term virgin is useless to determine someone's promiscuity.

[think_different]

100 is a huge number... Hahaha Your point is valid

[Warmapplecrumble]

Also the hymen just breaks naturally from exercising a lot, riding a horse etc. I broke my hymen long before I even touched myself or had any sexual contact lol.

[think_different]

So did u call ur that act/moment loss of virginity

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lol I used to ride donkey, horsed when I was child. And my dad loved taking me on his motorbike. I was a toddler and he'd take me around the neighbourhood. XD. I also did a lot of exercise and dancing. So I lost some of my hymen lol. I didn't even know what it was. I guess medically I lost virginity at 23. But to me I lost it at 13 when I had oral sex. And the hymen doesn't fully break till first child. So some bits are still left.

[think_different]

Sounds like super stretchable hymen... I think it must b donkey... Too thin back it have.. Well 13 is very young for oral.. Seems u started learning that tym.. What u did for 10 years.. It took u 23 to break it.. Lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lmao ewwww not have sex with them... damnnn like ride them like a vehicle. Well he was very pushy for sex, he got violent. It put me off men.

[think_different]

Hehehe... Okay Oh men.. Never let women feel the pleasure.. Always in hurry.. Hope u found the non pushy man now

[Warmapplecrumble]

Yeah.. :-) ♥ pushy not good.. lool

[think_different]

Cool..

[CheerGirl38139]

Geezus cripes...

[think_different]

Ooooooo

[Sainukon]

the hymen doesn't break it stretches out

[think_different]

Okay..

[The_L0ne_Wolfie]

I believe that if one does any kind of sexual activity with another human, then he/she isn't virgin anymore. For example, if a girl gets kissed by a guy on the lips, her lips lose their virginity.

[think_different]

So if guy touch or kiss pussy lips.. Girl loose her virginity?

[The_L0ne_Wolfie]

Yup.

[think_different]

Thats like spiritual thing to me...

[The_L0ne_Wolfie]

Well, she is doing SEXUAL ACTIVITY with another human. 😝

[think_different]

Hahaha

[Whatthefluff]

She is still a virgin. A penis was not inserted.

[think_different]

What if penis shape dildo did it?

[Whatthefluff]

Not a real penis

[backtoblackkkk]

She'll remain a virgin. A broken hymen has nothing to do with virginity, period. You lose your virginity if you have penetrative/vaginal sex.

[think_different]

What if boyfriend insert fingers and hymen broke.. Is it called penetrative oral?

[momo770]

No one looses their virginity they lose it. Yep

[rgb008]

Damn how did she break her hymen during oral?
He have an 8 inch tongue of steel?

[Whatthefluff]

I think he means fingers

[rgb008]

@Whatthefluff There are virgin girls who finger themselves and I have never heard of someone breaking their hymen doing that. But I guess it's possible I don't know.

[think_different]

Yes.. Fingers.. 😂😂

[rgb008]

dude how big are ur fingers? lmfao

[think_different]

There is no fixed place of hymen.. Every girl spot it on different distance.. So can't say how.. But a boyfriend having big fingers can easily do it.. 😉

[OlderGuy965]

Orally broke her hymen? How long and strong is your tongue. Holy shit dude!

[think_different]

My toung is short.. But fingers are steel rod 😂😂

[cupidkisses]

no she won't be virgin anymore

[think_different]

Okay

[awanti95]

If you have never entered penis in your Vigina then you are virgin.

[think_different]

Lol.. I don't have vegina.. But ya can try wid my girl

[Pizzalover101]

As soon as you have oral umyour no longer virgin as I've been told by many girls here

[Pizzalover101]

Plus I asked the virgin question i did an girls told me this an any form of sex with a couple is loosing it so oral anal in side any her licking sucking a guys thimg same thing

[Anonymous]

The Hymen Doesn't Work That Way

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PM79UBTwfsg&t=93s

[Opinion Owner]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA&t=38s