If a girl doesn’t like blowjobs or anal is there something wrong?

So there is only so many sexual actions if she doesn’t like blowjobs due to previous trauma, she also thinks cum looks like snot by her description and is grossed out by it. She also is grossed out by anal. This girl is soon to be 24

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  • I don’t think there’s anything wrong with her. As long as she likes it vaginal which is natural and correct, she’s actually very normal. Now if she doesn’t like vaginal, then perhaps there is something wrong. I wouldn’t blame a girl for not wanting semen on her face or in her mouth. It does have the consistency of snot and it was never meant to go in the mouth but rather in the vagina. As long as she is OK with it getting inside her or around the general area down below, heck even a little on the breasts from time to time, then she is wired correctly. And I don’t blame her for not wanting anal either. It seems like it would be very painful and uncomfortable for the woman as a receiver and again, the anus was never made to take in the penis. That’s why a girl has a vagina, to accommodate a penis and perfectly I might add. The vagina is meant to both give and receive pleasure

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  • I think there is, at least for fellatio or receiving cunnilingus. I think anal intercourse is repugnant and crosses the line for me.. A girl that has an eversion oral intimacy is a red flag. She will hold back in a relationship for other reasons as well.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i think it's very important to give a guy blowjobs because he's just going to need to cum and i really believe that... even intercourse is kind of nervy because you can easily get pregnant but there's no reason not to give a blowjob... anal is another subject you can't assume a girl should give you anal... but a blowjob definitely a guy can assume that.

  • That’s just her preference. There’s a lot of other things you guys could experiment with that don’t involve oral or anal, that she may find she likes more. No need to dismiss her (and worse, alienate her) for her preference not being entirely aligned with yours. Just experiment to find some new things she does like :)

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  • No there is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman not liking blow jobs or anal.

    other then the fact that she is a lame and selfish lover.

  • Yes there is.

  • No, these are just her preferences. It would be worse if she did things she does not like just because they appear in porn movies. A couple can find their own style and they do not have to follow what is currently the most common in their society.

  • People have different levels of inhibitions and anxieties. This doesn’t make her abnormal but probably not a suitable companion for you.

  • No. Those are her preferences.

  • Nothing wrong its what she likes and dislikes

  • No, but she may not be the woman for you.

  • Not every act is for everybody. And sometimes, even when you enjoy something, a bad experience can change how you feel. I know I thought I would love getting sucked on, but the first BJ I ever got was with a woman who had no idea how to give head, so it ended up being a really uncomfortable experience that turned me off getting blowjobs entirely.

  • " she also thinks cum looks like snot " lmao 😂... No, it's very common not to like anal... And a lot of women don't like bjs... Honestly, I think i like prudes lol.. They're sassy and fun to explore...

  • Grow up. If she doesn't like sexual things with you or thinks you're gross leave her alone.

  • Why would anyone assume that?

  • She's got a lot of hangups. better to move along

  • Anal sex is understandable if she doesn't like it.

    Oral sex on the other hand is standard in a relationship so if she doesn't do oral sex then something is wrong.

    She needs to grow up and be an adult.

  • No I would rather her not because the bunhole was made only for things to come out.

  • What! She doesn’t like putting her mouth on your sweaty balls? Or taking it up the ass?

    1. You should be reciprocating. Whatever she wants. Rev her up.
    2. Clean yourself for godsake.

  • Nope quite normal in my experience

    • Most women are like this

  • She needs medical advice haha.

    Dump her and look for someone else, or else your sex life will be horrible, and in the future you might had to cheat on her (maybe force her to do it).

  • I mean not liking anal is normal. Some girls like it and some don't. But not liking blowjobs does seem a little strange.

  • Not wrong, per se. Those things are just preferences. But I'll just say that MY preference is a women who enjoys giving and receiving oral, and enjoying receiving anal is a big bonus. Yes, some women do love anal.

  • Some women are like that, going to be a boring sex life with her, I would just find someone else