Guys, if a girl doesn’t want to give a BJ is that a turn off?

it just grosses me out
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  • I love to have her suck my dick and even swallow the cum. But, if she is not willing to - its her choice. I would never force her to do it - but again I too have my own choice of having her mouth giving me pleasure - So, sexually I would miss a thing from her side.

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  • It's disappointing. If she has a particular issue with bj but is wildly enthusiastic about pretty much everything else sexually I would live with it. If, is as more commonly is the case, bj are simply the top of the large list of things she doesn't want to do, then we just aren't very compatible and I wish her well in finding someone she is compatible with.

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  • Nope not at all.

    her choice, it’s never a problem.

    you have to respect a partners wishes

  • Not at all... it is her choice and I respect it. Are you ok with giving handjobs? Guys love them and they sure are better than jerking off!

  • I wouldn't say it's a turn off but perhaps you could make up for it by learning how to give an amazing hand job.

  • Not unless you want him to eat you out, but you won't suck his penis. One girlfriend I had, would not suck me but I ate her to climax. Hardly a good feeling or relationship

  • What you don't like some guy grabbing your head and trying to shove it down your throat? yeah I get that.

    Your not the only one, I don't like getting them... I often say no happiness with or from me if it involves anal or oral. Although I don't actually mind giving oral, I just don't like receiving it.

  • Never? Yea that is a problem.

  • Honestly?

    Yeah it kinda is.

  • Afther i had only girls that give BJ i will not ba able to stay whit somebody who don't do.
    If that girl finde me when i whas a virgin she whas having more chances to be whit me, but in todays days, it will be a very big turn off.

  • Id prefer if she did, but not really a turnoff

  • No it's never a deal breaker some women just don't go for that.

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