If a girl has sex with you within the first month, would you think she's easy?

[Anonymous]

[Apope16]

No. A girl having sex within the first 3 dates is a sign of high attraction. It is pretty standard. By the time you reach 33 you have seen a lot and you realize that if you guys aren't having sex by date 3 she probably has friendzoned you. Most of my longest relationships have come from sex on the first date. One was 2 years and we lived together after. The others were several months. I have had sex on the first date a few times. Not all of those women I have fallen in love with... however... out of the women I have fallen in love with..3 out of 4 women I had sex with on the first date.

[stevie123]

Generally in my experience sex can be had after about a week of dating.
It was mutually agreeable by both parties.
So based on that it seems that a week is the average time to hookup.
However do not feel pressured and wait until it feels right for you.
It will be worth the wait and you will have no regrets!

[friendlypelican]

oh wow the divide in opinions haha;; i think women think its easy cause theyre more emotionally driven whilst men, who are more sexually driven think of it more as common knowledge.

[DizzyDesii]

Course the guys saying no say no cause theyre easy themselves 😂 I wouldn't date a guy who gives it up in less than 6 months

[HugoThe2nd]

I don't think anyone is "easy".
I think the sooner they want to have sex with me, the more attracted to me they are.

If a woman was making me "wait", I'd simply just cut her off so she can go play games with someone else.

[ChrisMaster69]

No not at all.

you may have both had a drought and be as horny as hell.

you might more sexually compatible at start of relationship

but not a negative on the girl

[ChrisMaster69]

@ asker update. It’s not a timescale, it’s when you feel ready, could be 3 minutes, could be 3 years

[Ditto626]

I voted no.

However if she's playing the field and I'm not the only guy she's seeing I may be a little concerned that she slept with me in the first month because she's probably doing it with the other guys.


But if I'm the only one then I'm cool with it.

Also any ladies reading this, I don't care that you have a lot of sex. I just want to be a girl's only male partner.

[Sensmind]

To me , it would depend on the connection we had, if we clicked enough to feel that we could take the next step then great - I would not sex just to have sex

[NathanDavis]

A full month is a lot of time, for me, to get to know someone well... so no, I wouldn't think of something like that.

However you said, within... so technically, that's five minutes too? five hours, five days? I think that would be rather quick.

[Achilles1]

Yes, I'd think she's easy.

You must realize, if she's done it with you within the first month, you're not the only guy she has. She's done it with other guys within the first month as well.

If a girl says, ''Oh, I'm only doing this with you''... LOL that's obviously a lie. Why, ''only'' you? lol.

[SnuffleMuffins]

I don't like stigmas and nor do a lot people from different genders. If someone thinks you're easy, they're not worth your time. They're already generalizing you and negatively judging you. It's toxic.

[Adam1978]

No, It's not about time passing, it's about time spent together. You can spend enough time together in a month to not be counted as easy.

[ShadezMcgee]

How many dates has the woman gone on with the guy in question this first month?

[MikeTheBartender]

If she doesn't have sex w me in the first month we aren't going to date. But I'm a little older than you. It changes as you get older.

[Drumlin2001]

If I was seeing someone new and things didn't get physical, especially without any conversation to explain why, I would begin to assume they weren't really interested.

[Drumlin2001]

Important thing is to communicate. Do things at a pace your comfortable with

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah, but I wouldn't agree to it after just knowing her a month.

[Asker]

I don’t get it, so only officially dating for more than a month and you won’t think she’s easy?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I would think she's too easy, but I would also refuse the offer for sex because of that, which means your wording of "if a girl has sex with you within the first month" is off, it should say, if a girl requests sex within the first month" because I'm not letting a slut get in my pants and I don't need the sex to actually happen to formulate that opinion of her, she would just have to ask for it within a month and I would think she is too easy.

[Iron_Man]

Yes,,,,,,

[Wise4myage]

Yes I would. That is why its good to be patient and make the guy wait.

[kellytheman]

I think if she has sex with you the night you meet her or days yeah I say she easy. She is not easy if she waits 2 weeks or a couple months to have sex.

[kellytheman]

Yeah 3 months is good also

[Twalli]

It would never happen

[IHateBeingaMan]

i see nothing wrong

[Hanrej]

Depends on how hard I tried.

[fred_durst]

one month? HELL YEAH
make him wait for 30 years , guaranteed 110% there is no way he will see you as easy

[vegasgotlights]

This pole surprises me... very much... waiting a month is a LONG time. I would have no problem waiting that long, my ex wanted to wait 30 days before actual penetrative sex, and I was 100% fine with it.. but sex is just sex lol