If a girl passed out after drinking and she asks you to be sexual with her, would you? I feel like even though she's asked it's not full consent?

Question

Imagine after a few drinks, a girl you're hanging with loses control over herself and becomes unconscious. She asks you to perform things. Would you? Imagine waking up the next morning with no idea what had happened due to the black out and you find that you are wearing different clothing. This leads to the belief that at some point clothes came off. When asking the guy, he states he was asked to do some things and that he done some of them. This is a guy she trusts and is in a relationship with. Do you think he should have done those things?

Dargil · Accepted Answer

I would not partake unless she was conscious and consenting. I had an instance like this. A girl was falling down drunk and knocked on dorm door. In she came, shucked her clothes and got into my (the only) bed. Not long after, I did the same but did not do anything sexual except spooning and cuddling, which even in her stupor, she liked. The next morning over coffee, she said: Thank you for not fukking me".

Did I miss an opportunity?

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

Nope; I have a personal rule about that.

If a girl is drunk, then I won't touch her, even if she insists. Unless she's in full control of herself, then I would feel as if I were taking advantage of her. I won't do that.

Besides, I don't find drinking/being drunk attractive, anyway, so it would be a turn off, regardless.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Nope. I don't rape.
Now if she said it was ok BEFORE she drank, and was ok with it or wanted me to do it when she was drunk or ptfo, then yeah sure as i gained consent before she lost the ability to freely consent.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

If you are in a relationship what does it matter? you will eventually fuck the guy sooner or later.. Why is the dumb bitch drinking so much to lose control?

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I don't even like sleeping with drunk women, so no.

boggboss · Answer

Let's get this clear even if I'm in the act of sex and she passes out I'm removing my dick and not doing anything more people are crazy if they are willing to take risks like that

e232bm · Answer

If you are unconscious how are you communicating and still speaking about things?

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I see two ''sides'' here:

#1 - LEGAL: law hawks will be ready to take me apart

#2 - PERSONAL: I'd do nothing if I don't know the girl well enough. If I DO know her, I'd be aware how far we can go. And if all's well, then it will be a busy night :)

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I would not go through with that, no.

Mansearching · Answer

Its not. Its rape. Date rape. One new years eve girlfriend (present one) got drunk. I didn't. Had a couple but that's it. Anyway, she started to pass out when we got back to my house. She eventually went out. I undressed her down to just panties. Laid her in bed. I went to other side and went to sleep myself. I didn't do anything sexual to her. She asked what happened. I told her what i just said and she thanked me for not doing anything to her.

hbg84 · Answer

I would not touch her in a sexual way. She is drunk and therefore can't give consent. If you had sex with her while she's drunk it is considered rape.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

If WWE have been dating awhile, and she has sleepover my place or vice vs her, I would probably strip her down to her pa ties n put pj ot a t-shirt on her. Kiss her good night and sleep on the other side of the bed.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Ideally no. But who's saying he wasn't as well.

DextroShade · Answer

Was she awake enough to take her own clothes off? Regardless this question is a double-standard; if instead of having sex with some dude she decided to get behind the wheel and kills a family of four she would be held responsible for that decision so she is also responsible for her decision to have sex. If she was literally unconscious as in lying down unresponsive with her eyes closed then the guy would be in the wrong.