If a girl sat on guys lap or straddle him (sitting on his lap facing him) during sex how would you like her to move? Bounce or grind or anything else?

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AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

Red97u · Accepted Answer

Completely depends on how you feel. From the top you are in control, giving you the choice. I know you understand because you asked this question. Just about any movement can feel good in different ways. All you need to do is experiment and communicate with your partner. However, whatever happens you must remember yourself in all of this. If it doesn't feel good for you then it's only a bit worth it, and chances are anything that feels good to you will feel good to him.

TiffyPuff · Accepted Answer

So like, don't let porn influence you, cuz bouncing and stuff could break his dick :/

Like, penis fractures are a thing.

So grinding is safer. And don't go up and down if you do want to "bounce". Move more like... um diagonally. Kinda hard to explain.

:)

tacoty21 · Answer

A mixture of all types of moments are for the best results. You can start by bouncing, then switch it up to gring back and forth, then some kissing, then back to grinding, then kissing, then hopping, etc. Doing it like that can really satisfy both individuals.

JustChris · Answer

Both! Reminds me of the song Grind On Me by Pretty Ricky. Bouncing is amazing and so is grinding. Mmmmm... just get lost in the pleasure together and make each other both feel good.

Neodampiel · Answer

some chicks have better technic so I'd prefer whatever felt the best with what she was capable of doing. bouncing is pretty dangerous though can lead to broken, flattened, squished and all kinds of nightmares to a dick

RimeIce · Answer

Grind, grind, grind.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Both. You gotta mix it up.

That1tallguy · Answer

I would say if he's on the larger side bounce if he's small or average grind. it's sounds like they're scared it's gonna slip out because it more likely to happen when they're smaller. personally I prefer up and down but each guy has their prefrence.

Dargil · Answer

Just grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind...

JoyGirl · Answer

I would grind. 😊

Iraqveteran666 · Answer

Do what feels best for you, the more pleasure you get the more pleasure he will get.

dolemite68 · Answer

definitely bounce

lord_chilled · Answer

Grind. Bouncing is okay too as long as the dick doesn't slip out. My dick got some curve action, so its easier to break, and girl on top is the top reason for penile injuries