Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it because you’re afraid to be seen naughty in public? Or do you prefer she be a lady in the streets? Or are you trying to hint at nudes or some shit? Like there's no reason to PM if she's putting it all on frontstreet. I just wanna know the reason.
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If a girl speaks sexually open on her posts, whats your reason for asking to PM?
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As much as i express loving being publicly naughty, i def dont get why certain people askin me to PM 🤣 you know i love an audience haha
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I’ll initiate posts but i have no reason to initiate a PM unless im romantically interested in the person
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17 85If she's having a problem or something I usually offer to dm, just to talk 1 on 1 about it if she wants to.
But would you say “can you pm me?” Or would you say “im here to talk if you want to pm me”. Like i need to know why before i ge there and get surprised by a dick pic 🤣
I always say something like "my DM's are open if you need to talk about it more" or "hmu in DM's if you need to vent or talk". Lmao
Why am I invited to this? XD
Everyone was
The point of asking public questions is so everyone can read the answers and conversations and learn from them. I get the impression some guys want a PM from a girl to try to coerce her into something they aren't comfortable with saying publicly e. g. nude photos.
I dont want someone whos afraid to let it all hangout in public 😂
I want to tell you things that may get me reported if I tell publicly.
Then maybe you shouldn't tell it lol
It makes me cum though
If you're talking about the dudes on here.
Either they genuinely feel comfortable about asking you sexual questions without judgement
OR
they want to sext and nudes.
9/10 its the latter.
Which is why I pace myself when it comes down to those questions.
I think eveyone knows im judgmental af 😂 so they PMing the wrong one
Lol gurl you know what mean- as in you dont hold back 🤣 😂
I don't make a habit out of asking girls that I don't know to PM, but if I were gonna embarrass myself, it's gonna be in front of as few people as possible, lol. Besides, that way at least I wouldn't have anyone interrupting whatever we're talking about or doing, and maybe she'd feel the same way and would prefer to be in private for whatever I'm gonna ask of her. Technically makes it more special too, because if she agrees to whatever it is that I want from her, then at least I know that no part of it is because she wants people to watch.
Lmao you throwing shade with that people watchin comment 🤣
;) Lmao, In all seriousness though, it's fine. I just feel as though that stuff has the potential to mean more if done in private, at least on occasion. Plus I don't want to pester people with that kind of talk if it's unwelcome, lol.
If I did it would be because I'm not comfortable discussing everything in public and would like advice/more info.
Fair enough. But thats what a therapist is for, right
True enough but I don't have access to one and sex wouldn't be the first thing on my list to discuss.
I feel like I'm too introverted to asnwer that. As far as I remember 99% of PMs both here or on any other site I've had were initiated by the other person cause I'm just not the type who'd go up to someone to start a conversation. I'm just kind of a person who generally roams alone.
I’ll initiate posts but i have no reason to PM unless im romantically interested in the person
Yeah I can understand that. I guess people who pm are generally looking for the same I guess. God knows how many flirts I've been oblivious to in my pms
There are certain opinions that I prefer to say privately. I've also had a few very lurid conversations via DM and they were great, though I wouldn't have made them publicly
The truth always comes to the light 🤣
I don’t pm women on here. But I can imagine women on here probably get mobbed by a lot of guys especially the sexually explicit picture ones lol
Hell even some lesbians be attackin 😂
Lol dang
Always wondered this tbh
Yea its crazy
I dont know, i dont ask to PM lol.
Smart guy
honestly i have received more unsolicited messages than i have sent private messages. I only PM when im asked to PM..
Im the same way
For the same reason why I don't shout private or one on one conversations in public. A. It's rude etiquette. B. If it becomes a one on one conversation, I don't need people all in my business unless I want them to be.
I don't slide into DMs to send dick pics. That's the equivalent to walking up to some girl you barely know and asking her if she wants to see my junk or just whipping it out mid conversation.
Yet people walk up to randoms and ask for their number. You dont even know them yet. I’d want to get to know someone in public a good while before i ever went off in private with em 🤷♀️
Depends where you meet and how you meet in public. Can't really get to know someone at a bar or at school. Also to me seems a bit dramatic to make the comparison of asking for a phone number vs how people behave on social media. Social media is intended for socializing in different ways than just out in public. Either way I'm done talking about it, don't care enough to have a discussion about proper etiquette on the internet. Chalk it up to different strokes.
Some do it for romantic reasons.
some just want a friend
i would if I want a friend who I can talk to openly and no judgements about everything like relationship, sex, friends, philosophy, ways to live ur life, experiences...
in a pm u can get deeper and really get to know the person and be there for each other.
if I go to pm I’d do on somewhere u can chat instantly too tho
But its an advice site. I see no reason to pm unless the asker suggested it first
Some people like 1 on 1 communication better. I don't think it's wrong unless this specific person takes it somewhere the second one doesn't want it to go. I can tell I met 3 very good chatting mates I love sharing about my life with and talk to😊
It's simple if you talk sexy it means you are very open and people try to get more which you would share in private so more spice and taboos kinks fetishes and also try there luck if you would give them a virtual sex or nudity pics or talk dirty share your untold stories like dirty minds think alike and much more lol🤣🤣🤣
Yea, no.
I will be respected her desire and seee positive outlook.
Thats good
Probably just not to clutter up the question responses with a conversation that could go on a tangent. Really there doesn't need to be more reason than that.
Good point
I don't pm lol.
i've messaged to follow up on stuff i didn't want everyone to read
This site is messy af. You kinda gotta expect others to findout what happens in the dms
I don't know never done it
Good boy