If a guy doesn't text you after you have sex for at least a day, is that only negative?

[sarahnina]

I'm assuming it is.

[Fireguy17]

the way I was raised your new car would have arrived by then, but not making excuses for anyone it is possible that his schedule is such that he doesn't have time, but it only takes 30 seconds to say hi I'm thinking of you, my legs are now just starting to work again.
So hopefully he will contact you soon, if not I'm hoping he didn't use you for a 1 and done.
If he either takes a long time to contact you, or just contacts you for another go at it, then you might want to consider that he just wants to be with you for sex.

[Anonymous]

Nope, it’s not a bad sign. Guys often only think about the thing that’s in front of us at the moment. If he doesn’t text back soon though shoot him a text, ask him if he wants to grab food or something. Just be cool about it, nothing is cooler than a woman who’s relaxed.

[sarahnina]

🤔 hmm..

[Screenwriter]

I don't think it's an either or. If you're simply FWBs, and I wouldn't expect any contact except to make a sex date, consummate it and afterward to go separate ways. It's about sex, not talk.

[Anonymous]

Yes he is bored of the sex or hated it! Probably looking at new girls to bang leaving you ghosted!

Never any good reason to do that unless she is dead!

[Anemone978]

For the most part yes..

[SnowedIn]

Not necessarily

[Guffrus]

All you fucking people who think you are wizards needs to stop playing silly fucking games.

The day you can tell me the winning lottery numbers before the draw is the day you get to explain the unknown.

[magiusX26]

you are assuming which "makes an ass out of u and me".

[Alex-Snow]

He should text u and try for another date or hookup. How was the sex? How old is the guy?

[sarahnina]

he's 31, it was great but he did only last 2 minutes..

[Alex-Snow]

Only 2 minutes so it probably did not give you time for a great orgasm also. How come he did not go for round 2 or 3?

[jahaims]

He probably already got what he wanted

[sarahnina]

Yeah but he spent 4 months talkin to me everyday.. why would he put all that effort in to have sex once and he only lasted 2 minutes lol 🤷‍♀️

[jahaims]

You know some guys do that, right? They are talking to 10 girls at a time. He didn't wait 4 months for all of you.

[kellytheman]

Yeah that’s pretty’s bad he needs at least text something like say how great it was the night you had sex or see how you feeling or just saying hi. I not sure why either he just used you for sex or maybe it wasn’t that great.

[sarahnina]

He definitely enjoyed it and only lasted 2 minutes but we talked for like 4 months everyday, he'd really put all that effort in for one time for two minutes lol I don't understand.

[Longshank]

Don’t assume!!! Was the sex good or awkward? Did you finish him and did he cum? Don’t look negatively

[sarahnina]

It was good but he only lasted like 2 minutes before he got off. But we talked for like 4 months everyday.. so he really put in all that work to have sex once fast? Lol doesn't make sense.

[B4851]

Not necessarily, but it's very unusual.

[sarahnina]

I just don't understand why he put effort into talkin to me everyday for 4 months but to do it once? He definitely enjoyed it.

[B4851]

I have no idea why he would do that.

[Anonymous]

Yes, in fact I use it as a hint, when I have sex with a woman, the next day I stop sending her messages, it's a way of telling her that I only wanted sex with her, and that after having sex with her I don't want her again to see never again.

[sarahnina]

But would you talk to a girl everyday for 4 months just to do it once? He definitely enjoyed it..

[Opinion Owner]

No, that's wasting time, I only seduce a woman when I find out that she finds me attractive, which is very easy because they are very willing, a week of romance, then I have sex with them, and a day next I forget their names.