If a guy has a small d*** from his prespective, would he be too insecure about it to have sex with his SO?

i mean no offense, size doesn't matter for me but i would like to know if he's too insecure about his size would he be okay with having sex or he will have difficult time consedering the matter even if he wants it badly?
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  • When I lost my virginity to my SO, she was also a virgin.

    I still remembered that "auspicious" afternoon, after I dropped my pants, she said: "OMG! You're so big! How is that gonna fit me?"

    Then I got to explained to her "no worries... if a baby can come out of you, mine is very small"... (felt so good she agreed and we had sex).

    And haha, I have a Chinese dick... LOL! Known worldwide to be on the smaller side LOL!

    Oh what's the question again? Insecure?

    Haha, lucky me. She was a virgin. Never felt that way until today LOL!

    • if she's happy that's all that matters of course, never mind the question.

    • Ya, after reading the guys Opinions here, I know I'm the fortunate one 😁😁😁

    • you definitely are! i love your confidence by the way.

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  • Mine isn`t as big as i wish it was but there`s nothing i can do about it and just live with it.
    I`m not in a relationship but i am a naturist and swinger and visit clubs and i`m happy for anybody to look at it and if anybody wants to have sex with me it doesn`t stop me at all

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  • I'd say that desire is going to win out way more often than not.

  • Most guys know better than to get into a relationship if they are too insecure to have sex.

  • Sex is sex, I doubt mature adults are refusing to have sex because they don't feel well endowed.

    If anything they will be more worried about their stamina and performance.

    Just like teens with cars are not going to feel insecure that they have not got a Ferrari to pick up the chicks with. They know the game is with them, not the object.

  • If he's so insecure or self conscious about it that it's causing depression, yes it could. I'd just try to reassure him as best you can that you truly don't care, and show some extra attention/love for it :) Like if you are feeling insecure about your body, what would make you feel better? Do that for him.

  • Yaa obviously he will be insecure..
    Just imagine yourself in his place asker you will understand him..
    Just show him more affection and make him comfortable while having sex..

  • size and shape of a dick do play a role during sex. but so does foreplay and continuing to stimulate the woman's body. guys just need a bit of confidence and skills to multitask. even an average size dick can push a girl over the edge of orgasm. if you help her along with other stimulation.

  • It depends on whether he considers intercourse to be his only option. Better he becomes adept at oral and fingering so satisfy her before mounting up.

  • no. i would probly still try to have sex. but usually afraid to show it. hide it. turn the lights off.

  • Size is immaterial so long as performance is satisfying for girls.

  • He will ve insecure to an extent

  • Yes I have been self consience about it as I wasn't really happy with my size. So through a lot of questionable research I have discovered I am actually just above average. Anfld since then I've been okay. But yes, the first time I expose myself to a new partner it always crosses my mind, what if I'm not good enough.

  • Society makes men feel that if they are not hung like a horse, he won’t be able to satisfy a woman.
    Then there’s the fear of Premature Ejaculation. (Wham Bam Thank You Mam).
    And you wonder why he’s insecure?

  • Most likely yes

  • I don’t have a small dick but I would imagine that a guy with a small dick would be a little apprehensive about it

  • I don't have any problem about it..

  • My girlfriend says my dick is ok good looking and sexy , but still I feel self conscious about my size sometimes ,, so it's an anxiety always in mind.

  • Every guy is insecure about this..🙂😅

  • I get insecure and in the past I've had trouble starting sexual pleasure with a woman especially if I was really into her and didn't want to ruin what we had emotionally

    • i'm glad youve overcome this insecurity, if i may ask you, how did you overcome it?

    • When the feelings are strong enough to the woman and once I felt completely comfortable with it then I'll let her know my size, hopefully by then we were close enough she would run from it, and if it goes right then she happily accepts it, I may not be best with it due to the size but I made sure she got hers with my tongue so she wouldn't go without

  • just have sex with him once and see LOL

    • i will soon but he have been postponing it a lot so i started to doubt

    • he has low sex drive or has no confidence

  • I’m insecure about my d size sometimes but I would still have sex if I could.

    • i think having sex with someone you bearly care about their opinion is alright but if they was ur SO would u be still okay?

    • Well I mean I cannot imagine a going without sex in either situation so yes for me at least lol