If a guys cum tasted bad, would you tell him?

I told my boyfriend that his cum tasted bad. It really got to him. He won't let me give him a bj and he's drinking pineapple juice and changing his diet. Now I feel like a bitch.

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Edit. When he asked if it was all cum or just his I did tell him that it was just his as the last few guys tasted much sweeter.
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  • Well, what you blew (pardon the pun) was a diplomatic way of addressing all of this. You stated directly "Your cum tasted bad". OK, well, that sucks, of course.

    The real bottom line isn't that his cum tastes bad. It's that you wished it tasted better. So, for that, you could have brought this up as an opportunity to change his cum's taste without making him feel like shit.

    For instance, "Hey, I read somewhere that the taste of cum can change based on what the guy eats. I wanna do an experiment and see if this is true if it's cool with you. So, how about I give you a great BJ in a few days after you eat and drink some different things? I read that drinking pineapple juice will make your cum sweeter, so let's try that!"

    Notice in that hypothetical conversation from you, not once do you say "Your cum tasted bad." He doesn't really need to know that. What he needs to know is that you want the taste to change (for the better) regardless of the actual reason. So, the above conversation doesn't make him feel bad, but it entices him do something fun that would actually be better for the both of you.

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    What I wrote above - about getting people to change without making them feel bad about themselves - is an example of very important skill in dealing with people in the real world.

    Sometimes being bluntly direct, even if what you say is true, doesn't help your cause and, in fact, can set you back because that helps establish a reputation of you being a bitch or asshole.

    Nuance and diplomacy can definitely help you in this world.

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  • I am willing to bet that you told him in a very insensitive manner and that is playing on other insecurities he has. There are ways to speak truth without being offensive so if you feel like you were being a bitch you probably were. Apologize and try to not do it again especially when discussing areas a person is insecure about.

    That being said, my girlfriend has expressed that my cum tastes bad too. Actually I can tell on her face after every bj, but she insists on swallowing. I tried the pineapple juice but it didn't help.

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  • Guys are sensitive about their dicks and anything related to it. I am sure you wouldn't really enjoy a man telling you that your pussy smells awful. Most cum doesn't taste all that great. Pineapple might help it. The fact he's making an effort fornyou despite all this kinda says he's a decent guy

  • Don't bring up other guys. men don't like the comparison.

    Other than that you said what needed to be said and now he's working on the problem. Make sure you give him a load of compliments the next time you taste him. He'll forget you even had any complaints to begin with.

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  • Why? I did and he decided to eat healthier... Besides I don't taste amazing either!

    Has his mess tasted any better?

    • I don't know yer, he won't let me taste it until his new diet has time to work

    • What did it taste like? Going to have him eat it too next time? My boyfriend wanted to try ir

    • He wanted to his own goods?

  • Honestly none of it tastes GREAT, but I get that some can be worse.

    I'd avoid saying that, and instead try to find creative ways to get him off without having to taste him. Handjobs, cum on belly, facials. And if he really wants to cum in your mouth, you can still spit. Honestly I spit a lot and I make a show out of it. Guys love SEEING their cum on you. Make it sexy, make a mess get it everywhere. He won't even care you didn't swallow. 😘

  • probably not... not worth the trouble of telling him that... usaully i'll say not bad even if it is bad

  • Nothing wrong with telling him, but he gentle when you do and just make sure it wasn't just a bad batch from him, maybe he was out smoking with his buddies the night before.

  • Wow, you are really dumb. Do you have any self awareness at all?

    • Not a lot, no.

    • I apologize for insulting your intelligence, some other posters gave some good suggestions for handling it in the future.

    • How does that make her dumb? Would you rather she not say anything at all, slowly stop giving him bjs because she can't stand the taste and never tell him why? Some people appreciate honesty and communication in a relationship

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  • I’d spit it out …

    • I like the honesty. lol

  • Whenever I'm serving a woman who is dating more than one guy, she'll sometimes make me try to guess which guy's cum I'm licking up, whenever she has me provide 'After Date Cleanup Service', but I don't really mind how it tastes, as long as she lets me do this for her.

  • Don't feel like a bitch, he's drinking pineapple juice and now things will be different, sometimes the truth hurts, did he expect it to taste good? It's not something you consume so I don't understand the sensitivity

    • I should also say that I compared his seman to other guys iv tasted and said his was the worst. I didn't think before I spoke.

    • Now I understand, that was unnecessary, maybe you are a bitch, bringing up other guys to a man is a turn off in general so I can see it now

  • If his semen tastes like used motor oil, I guess you should say something.

  • Doesn't it always taste bad?

    • No. Some tastes quite sweet and not bad at all.

  • If you said it nicely it shouldn’t be a problem. He should want to know if he tastes good or bad and how to improve his diet to make it taste better for you

    • Yeah but I kind of told him that his tastes worse than most of my ex's. So I get why it was a problem

  • I would say something, but more because a random man shot his load into my mouth without asking me than because of the flavor.

  • I would like to know.

  • Not really

  • That's big no

  • Why? If he's changing his diet to change the taste of his cum only then you probably should.

    BUT... If he changing his diet and he gets healthier all around then its a good thing. And you shouldn't feel like one. Then his cum is a plus.

  • Would seem obvious if the girl doesn't swallow. If she spits it out, there's a reason.

  • U were just being honest! Give him a few good handjobs.. guys love them also

    • True. But a guy can try eating more fruits and drinking more water and juices.

  • I've heard cum tastes salty?

  • Don't feel bad. I'd change my diet if a woman told me my cum tasted bad because I cum like a horse

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