Does that mean he doesn't want to see you when you're having sex because he's trying to fantasize about something else so he can get off? Something much more interesting than you?
Women, in general, have "multitasking" brains. Women are great at being able to keep track of 7 different things at once, and can smoothly shift gears from one task or responsibility to another.
Men, in general, have "focused" brains. We are good at focusing on a single task to the exclusion of everything else, which can be very productive, but if we have to multitask, we tend not to be very good at it, and it's easy for us to completely lose what we are doing and have to start over from the beginning. Many men struggle to be productive when multitasking. We can LEARN to multitask in specific ways, and we can improve with practice, but it doesn't come naturally to most of us.
Having sex, in most positions, most of the time, requires a man to multitask. He's got to maintain thrusting (keeping track of speed and angle and depth), he's got to keep track of how the girl is doing, he has to make sure he doesn't lose his balance, and heaven forbid he's ALSO kissing her or sucking her tits or fingering her clit at the same time - every last "CPU cycle" is being expended trying to keep all of those plates spinning.
This is one reason why a lot of guys don't make noise during sex - they just don't have any excess bandwidth in their brain to make noises - every available "brain cycle" is trying to keep track of all the things he's already doing, and there's nothing left over for vocalizing.
Now, the guy is close to having an orgasm, and he's trying to hold off, and his brain is starting to get overloaded, and if he doesn't REALLY concentrate, and do everything JUST right, he's going to pop too soon, or he's going to lose focus on the girl, or fall off the bed, or something. This will lead many guys to close their eyes and do their best to keep all those plates spinning. Multitasking does NOT come easy for most of us, and it takes work and concentration, and that's almost certainly what's going on here.
The only time I might say otherwise is if the guy is already a known narcissist, who makes everything about HIS wants and desires - and if you chose a guy like that, then him thinking about other women during sex is going to be the least of your problems.
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first of all, I encourage you to just relax and not worry about it. Most of what anybody does during sex doesn’t mean anything. We all tend to get kinda crazy lost and out of control in that moment and just let ourselves go. So, don’t think too hard about any of it. Secondly, if I were to guess I would say that he’s trying to control his orgasm. If he’s trying to put himself in the headspace where he can last a little bit longer, it’s natural to subconsciously look away from what is turning you on beyond your ability to control yourself: which is your body.
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0 8The most likely explanation is that you are overthinking things. That isolated bit of behavior could have a hundred different explanations and, unless you ask him, you or anybody wlse is just guessing at an answer.
0 0 0 0I dunno, I like having the visual.
sometimes my eyes can shut cuz of intense sensations forcing them shut, but its for like a few seconds.0 0 0 0That's one possibility but he also may be concentrating or in the throes of passion.
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0 0 0 0He's probably focusing on not cumming to soon.
0 0 0 0I sometimes do it if I’m trying to control my self and not cum?
0 0 0 0He’s focusing
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