If a man is in love with a woman can the sex mean as much to them as it does to her?

[Lilabueno75]

I mean actually in love, not just with a girl to pass time

[Anonymous]

Yes, it can be very intimate and special when feelings come into play. And what a lot of women don't know is that's how a lot of us guys get feelings for you. Meaning women need to feel a connection first before sex with a guy. We are kind of the opposite. Sex builds that connection for us, or helps to. The intimacy that comes with it.

[Lilabueno75]

Good answer! I’ve read something like that before... reason I got confused and raised the question is because I was reading a poll on who loves harder girls or guys (silly I know) and one person said if sex is involved it’s the women.. someone disagreed but I wondered why this person assumed sex meant more to the woman?

[Browneye57]

Of course. That's how a guy connects. Physically.
A woman connects emotionally.
That isn't to say guys don't have emotions, but it's just very different. It's a basic difference between the two genders, and the lie of feminism is that everybody is the same. They're just not. Never have been and never will be.

[AustinMan]

Absolutely!

[markscott]

Sex can certainly mean a great deal to a guy, when he is in love with a girl.

[waaromniet]

Of course.. sex can be very intimate and fulfilling for a man too. Now "as much" would be hard to say, im not a woman, but while sometimes sex is just fun, even with someone you're in love with, other times its all about the emotional side.

[Lilabueno75]

Yeah it’s hard to measure. But I just wanted to know if both are in love whether they can both be feeling the strength of emotion and intimacy in a similar way..

[waaromniet]

Def yes. I think men don't feel like that as often as women, or need it as often, but they do need it every once in a while and def feel it very strongly

[Lilabueno75]

So when they DO feel it they feel it strongly? I agree with that although sex with me (being a women) doesn’t always necessarily have to be emotional)

[waaromniet]

At least most guys who've talked about it did. its a vulnerable topic, we usually only talk to other men about the fun sex, and even then details are taboo :p

[Agape93]

Yeah absolutely

[beldath]

Sex is more of a physical thing and less of a mental thing for most men. Yes, it can mean just as much to us
For example, sex with love for me gives me getter orgasms. Just a random booty call gets the job done as well, just not as good. However, some guys get off harder with booty calls.

[whitehide]

It depends on the man, to some it doesn't mean as much as it does to others. Same goes for women.

[lan420]

Ya very true

[whitehide]

Some men even cry after sex with the woman they love, because it's so emotional, but they'll never tell anyone because then they'll be called sissies, and some men just leave without a word.

[Lilabueno75]

Very true.. good point I’ve knkwn some men to be emotional about it tbf

[TantraSerge]

Absolutely.

[outside_Toronto]

of course it can

[Lilabueno75]

What makes you certain?

[outside_Toronto]

There's never certainty to an absolute definition however to think this only happens for women is irrational

[Cellestial]

When in love, everything means a lot to a man when it comes to the woman he's in love with including sex

[Meatunnel69]

Men fall in love too and get emotional bonds but if we could we would have emotional bonds with many pretty women

[COMMODOREII]

Probably more so if she doesn't love him.

[Shamalien]

Yes ofc

[Steve37]

Of course

[Twalli]

Yes, but I don't think it can be proven how much the sex means to each other.

[simplelikeme]

Of course...

[JamesBlackDragon]

Yes it happens almost all the time

[Lilabueno75]

Really?

[JamesBlackDragon]

Yes really is it really that hard to believe

[Lilabueno75]

It’s just I know some view it as “more emotional” for the woman but it could just be a stereotype

[JamesBlackDragon]

Definitely a stereotype also most guys don't like to share their a emotion

[Ben228]

Absolutely.

[Anonymous]

It should, wouldn't you think?

[Anonymous]

No, it's two completely different things.
Men use love to get sex.
Women use sex to get love.

That's it! Don't shoot the messenger. If you want to blame someone, then blame our creator that wired us that way.
Mars VS Venus

[DenverOmelette]

That's a great book.

[Opinion Owner]

@DenverOmelette It should be required reading in school. This site is absolutely filled with each gender hating each other, that it's disgusting. Dogs don't like cats! Get the fuck over it. Cats don't like dogs! Get the fuck over it. Men forget to put the toilet seat down, and women forget to look before they squat! Get the fuck over it! LOL Opposites attract. Just like magnets. Get the fuck over it!

[DenverOmelette]

Yesss!