If a man is okay having a woman as a friends with benefits, why would he not want her to not have another?

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Sorry I meant “why would he not want her to have another?” thanks for understanding.

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AndyOh Yoda
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So he can always have YOU on the side. And to make sure you don't run off and find someone else. Also because he wants to think that your body is his.

Just a few thoughts... what do you think?
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- Asker
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  Why would someone always want someone on the side? That can’t be a happy life.
- AndyOh
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  Why not, you are there for him and ONLY him. And he can do what he wants and with anyone he wants, while SHE only waits for his call... sounds like a one-sided relationship if you ask me. I would find a better friends with benefits if I were you.
- Asker
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  She hasn’t agreed to anything of the sort. She likes him but doesn’t want anything right now, so he suggested it (even though he previously said it wouldn’t be that way when they meet when she wanted to date him before life became complicated and she needed time out from dating - long story). I’d think at your age you’d know that that’s not really how these things ever work out too though. People are more complex than that.
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- AndyOh
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  Well you did not give me all that information. My hope is that She figures out what is right for her and her friend. And at my age, it gets a little bit more difficult to find a friends with benefits because women tend to be more guarded and many are done with sex, sadly. Plus a lot of guys tend to get old and crotchety too... well not me, but other guys. Lol. Take care.
- AndyOh
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  And thanks for the MHO. Hope things work out.
Rusty-Shackleford Xper 2
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he probably cares about her and wants the friends with benefits to turn into something more
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- Asker
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  What do you think about AndyOhs comment?
- Rusty-Shackleford
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  I guess depends on the guy and where he's at. I ended a friends with benefits with a girl because she started really liking another guy in a romantic way and didn't want stuff to get complicated even though I didn't have any other girl and the sex was amazing... but I'm sure some guys would just try to keep it going as long as possible
- Asker
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  If she really started liking another guy in a romantic way it’s odd that she’d happily carry on sleeping with another guy.
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- Rusty-Shackleford
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  I mean true, just speeding up the inevitable. There's definitely room for an awkward transition time period.

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jakerson181 Yoda
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Jealousy.
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- Asker
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  Why jealousy unless he wants to be with her? What am I missing?
- jakerson181
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  He wants the casualness and lack of commitment of a friends with benefits relationship but at the same time wants her all to himself. Doesn't want to think about her fucking someone else. Afraid of comparisons, afraid she might enjoy the other guy so much she won't want to be a friends with benefits anymore. Maybe deep diwn he has feelings for her. Who knows?
- jakerson181
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  *down
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- Asker
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  Yeah I can see that. But at the end of the day if you enter into a friends with benefits situation surely you’ve already accepted that it’s only short term and will end at some point when one or both of you find another.
- jakerson181
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  Yes, you accept that intellectually but people aren't robots. Sometimes emotions enter into it and the view of things change.
- Asker
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  Yeah I can see how that’s true if they develop feelings, but if not then it’s as I said in my mind.
Gedaria Master
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No reason at all but can get complicated...
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- Asker
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  In what way do you mean?
- Gedaria
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  Having two female friends can cause the other to get jealous. It depends on the dynamics of the relationship. Thank fully most of my female friends know each other...
- Asker
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  Yeah well that’s not normal though
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- Gedaria
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  I didn't say I was. Most of my close friends are female, the only guys I come in contact with are through work, that totals about 5/6. I prefer female company, including gfs...
- Asker
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  Do you have anything to say on the particular question at hand?
- Gedaria
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  Possibly he is happy with just one...
- Asker
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  Maybe. But then why the confusion with FWBs. God knows.
- Gedaria
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  Be honest I get annoyed at guys , I don't think they know what they want. They are like kids In a candy store. They are happy until something catches their attention and have got to have it...
- Asker
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  Definitely true of many
- Asker
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  He’s already “had” me before though when we first met so...🤷🏼‍♀️
Kelly6 Master
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Good question
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