If a man knowingly engages in sexual sodomy with a transgender woman who physically looks like a woman, but it's actually a man, is the man gay?

A biological man as a transgender woman
A biological man as a transgender woman
The man is definitely gay/bisexual.
Vote A
The man isn't gay nor bisexual because I believe a trans-gender woman is actually a woman if she looks like one physically.
Vote B
I'm not sure.
Vote C
Other.
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These hormone pills and technology has gotten extremely good that these men are looking like actual women. Make sure to ask to see the vagina before you end up plowing a dude and not a actual woman. 🤢

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  • People who selected the second option are wrong, and here is why:

    Being gay means you attracted to same-sex physical characteristics. Typically, people do not posses the physical characteristics unique to the opposite sex. Naturally, female and male faces have their own distinct looks that allow us to differentiate the two on an instinctual level, and almost no men naturally look like females, and almost no females naturally look like men. This means when people are in their natural state, you will basically never find someone that occupies the sex opposite your sexual preferences attractive, because they won't possess the physical characteristics typical to the sex you are attracted to.

    This all changes once you add makeup, photoshop, and cosmetic surgery to the picture. I can put on a Marilyn Monroe mask, and you will find my face attractive. Are you gay because of this? No. You are attracted to the female characteristics attributable to the mask. The trans people that pass as an attractive member of the sex opposite their own, can only do so because of their own "mask". Their mask is just made out of makeup, surgery, and photoshop.

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  • Who is that photo?
    Is that actually a trans person?

    The question... I don't know. There are probably levels of gray to this.

    Well, first of all. Gay. That means you like men... only men. If you normally date women you'd be bisexual.

    If a guy only likes women and zero men... and he dislikes 90-95% of the transgender looks because he can see the male qualities, a deeper voice, male face structure, the frame still looks too male BUT he does like the really passable ones that really look feminine and could almost pas for 100% girls... I guess you could call that straight.

    There are a lot of gray areas and specific circumstances that would lean him towards straight or bi. Is he repulsed by all biological men and most transgender women?

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  • Well I'm not entirely sure, because a bi person said a bum hole is still just a bum hole.
    If the person is transgender I think that blurs the lines a little.

    Because in this instance a lot of transgender people find people fetishize them.
    If he were a gay guy. I would just say he was a gay person because the sexual preference is still a man. So long as they haven't had the op.

    I would say they're bi or bi curious in the least especially if they don't engage in other acts like pleasuring the transperson.

    It's hard to really say...

    As I said blurred lines. I could imagine it because they're trans the person using it as an excuse to justify not being fully one way or the other.

  • If they are purposely doing someone who was born the same gender as them then yes they are gay deep down, whether they agree or not. Like niqqa you shol as hell ain't straight lmao. Same goes for those dudes who wanna get pegged. Idgaf if its a girl pegging you, you’re enjoying taking a dick up your ass, regardless of if its plastic. Like nahh you’re closeted my dude. But you know, people can do what they wanna do. Just dont try to get with me cause i like my men straight

    If a man knowingly engages in sexual sodomy with a transgender woman who physically looks like a woman, but it's actually a man, is the man gay?If a man knowingly engages in sexual sodomy with a transgender woman who physically looks like a woman, but it's actually a man, is the man gay?
    • Pegging by definition is not gay

    • @jennifer_Hanmabloom like i said, gay

    • She right. A man that desires a penis in his butt or mouth wheather real or fake is gay in denial. I don't want a real or fake penis nowhere near me.

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  • In my opinion, it depends with his sense of limit and his actual attraction towards this transgender woman - is it the feminine beauty (some of these transgender women are very beautiful)? The male gender aspect? Or both? Does he consider to be a “bottom”? If he does or if it’s the male gender aspect or both then, he’s gay / bisexual otherwise he’s heterosexual. There are very many straight men who fuck their women in the ass or fuck transgender women out of fun and exploration and doesn’t qualify them to be gay / bisexual. To me, one has to mentally/psychologically identify himself/herself to be LGBT to be one. If you fuck or get fucked in prison because there was no pussy doesn’t make you gay/bi sexual.

  • No, they are just your ordinary Rump Ranger. Male or female, makes no difference to them.

  • I'm going with (A) he's gay!

  • If someone is attracted to someone else that in every way looks like the opposite gender, that would seem to mean they're straight.

  • Yes, that’s still a homosexual act.

  • That one’s gonna be between him and his God.

  • I voted B as he is not gay. Gay men are attracted to men with masculine physical traits so no. But she is not a woman either. It's just someone who is attracted to a transgender in my opinion.

  • the world is so confusing

  • I personally wonder this myself. I'm not gay, and don't like men. But if I were on a date and about bend a girl over when I feel she has a dick. I would still fuck and then I would let her fuck me. I mean I really don't look at it like a Guy. It's about like having a girl use a strap on with you. Kinda. Lol. I want to hook up with a trans woman, but she has to be superrr pretty.

    • You're definitely a gay.

  • If the trans is born a male and a male has sex with he/she/they/him/her (don’t know what to call them these days) but he’s gay. The trans is still a male biologically.

  • Imho it is gayer to worry about what is considered gay. The concept of gay sex is sort of an oxymoron, to me. Anything my dick fits in can get stretched and it won't come with its own label - until the thing is a dude's butthole.

    It is "inherently male" to want to put it in whatever will take it. And It is gay to not do that which is inherently male. If a trans woman offers you a thing to put it in and you don't for any reason other than because you can't get erect, that's what would be gay.

    • Man, you are definitely twisted. 🤦‍♂️

    • Well, I wasn't being completely serious. Or rather the catch is in the "can't get erect" part. Not being aroused by a woman of negotiable femininity is understandable to those with a mind to pursue the scents and sounds of a real woman.

  • If he's a transgender man, who actually looks like a man, then I see a man not a woman. From my perspective, if they look like a man, then my being interested in them doesn't equate to me being gay.

  • My question is, wtf does it matter to anyone else if he's gay, straight, bi or a damn melon?
    Why are people so preoccupied with others sexuality? SMH 🙄

    • Just to see what people think. Gives an idea of how twisted things are.

  • It's not about the act, but what he's attracted to. If it looks and feels like a woman, he's probably not gay.

    • A penis doesn't feel like a woman, lol.

    • Yeah but where do we draw the line there? If is a cross dressing man with a stuffed bra that just lifts his dress to take it in the butt, would we call it gay then?

    • It says transgender woman who physically looks like a woman. That would indicate that all of her body looks female.

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  • Depends. He may also have sex with women who are actually women, in which case he's definitely not gay.

  • I reckon no. If he was gay, he could just smash in the backdoor of any willing guy dude but he chose someone that appeals to him in a predominantly feminine way.

    • *gay dude

  • If the penis exists, then yes

  • I like to say I'm pansexual because it doesn't matter what sexuality or gender they are, they can be attractive to me. Like that first girl is very attractive to my eyes and would totally bang regardless.

  • I will call it bisexual 😂

  • He’s gay or at least texting the waters.

    • *testing

    • There's definitely no testing. He's full blown into gay ish.

    • Could be bisexual.

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