If a married man is looking at online sex sites and doing general searches for sex with BOTH searches to our specific location mean he's cheating?

[Khym79]

[SueShe]

It does not mean that he is physically cheating yet but that he is contemplating to cheat.

It would be an indicator that he is actively seeking a companion to fornicate with or at least to sext or exchange pictures.

If he is still looking, that means that he has not yet found what he is looking for. However, the fact alone that he is searching for sex in your area leads me to believe that he is already emotionally cheating. To me, emotional cheating is about just as bad as physical cheating because in his mind, the decision to cheat has been taken. It is just that he has not yet made the step to physically be unfaithful.

I don't think that one would look up specifically for sex in your own area if one does not have something very specific in mind.

[Guy13]

It is hard to tell. It probably means there should be heart to heart talk. Maybe a counselor to mediate later? I’m sorry, I’m sure that was a disturbing find.

[pizzalovershouse]

Sounds like he wants sum on side an is thinking he is going to not get caught

[pizzalovershouse]

Mho thanks

[Nikki1989]

Yes, that is not a good sign.

[Jamie05rhs]

He's at least trying to.

[jahaims]

Yeah

[Khym79]

Any clue how to find anything out? I do have him logged in on Chromebook and it's synced up to phone. I think he deletes activity and stuff because I've caught it before.

[jahaims]

Do you know how to check cookies? You could also put a keylogger on his Chromebook

[jahaims]

What does he say when you have confronted him in the past?

[Khym79]

He just denies it even though I took screenshots and told him that was typed in. Then he makes the excuse, "I look at boobs when you piss me off". #1, I don't piss him off that much, and #2, you can do a basic search for that, not in the town we live in and the town beside ours. It's the dumbest excuse I have ever heard.

[jahaims]

He is either immature or a narcissist more than likely

[Khym79]

He's older than me but does have childish tendencies, and the narcissist deal has to be true because he does a majority of that stuff. I think he believes he can just do it period because he likes to control things and act like the boss. It's not been a good last 15+ years of the 22 I've been married honestly.

[jahaims]

Try couples therapy. You will have a mediator that will look at the facts objectively. It will make you feel less crazy when you have a third party pointing out obviously negative scenarios.

[Smartman5]

No, I don't think so. what is the problem?

[In_Trance]

no it doesn't

[Zolly99999]

If he is not already he is trying too.

[panamared1]

Might just be curious

[Anonymous]

Yes that’s cheating.

[Khym79]

Any ways to find out if he's logged in and synced up to the Chromebook? I've caught it before and I think he's just deleting stuff or activity.

[Opinion Owner]

Check his history? If he’s on any sex chat sites than make a profile and look for him.

[Anonymous]

Yes. If he is looking for slut online to fuck her its a yes

[Khym79]

Any way or hack you know of to find it on his phone? I'm pretty sure he's been deleting things since I caught it before. He's also logged into the Chromebook which I have synced to his phone. 🤷

[Opinion Owner]

Im not sure.