If a woman is really good in bed does it make you paranoid that she's 'been around'?

I remember even when I was with my first boyfriend and had sex the first time he questioned whether I was actually lying.
But that's not true.
I was trying my hardest to just make him happy. As much as a compliment it was it was a double edged sword. Tbh that's been consistent throughout my dating life.
I get put in the not wife material slot...
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  • BULLSHIT!

    Life's 'Wisdom' comes from EITHER observation OR firsthand experience...
    and willingness to forsake what OTHER'S deem 'propriety'-

    EVERY male fantasizes to be 'her first' BUT... FEW possess the altruistic skill
    to do a noteworthy memorable performance putting HER pleasure above their own.
    "Tell me NOT of the number of your 'conquests' but instead, HOW MANY invited you for an encore'?"

    "A woman takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best;
    at all other times she can be as dignified an proper as her circumstances require."
    -"Time Enough For Love" Intermissions,, Robert Heinlein ; )

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  • No
    Not at all
    I dont even think that way I'm in the moment our moment. Her past is yesterday . and today that moment is between her and I . I look at it like this no matter how many times she has been laid
    No matter if this is her first time.. she's going to be good because that's my job is to make her feel so good she loses all control and she allows herself to feel something do beautiful that no matter what she's going to be good

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  • I think someone always has to be a bit paranoid to think like that. I never thought like that. Or maybe they have to be smarter. I like to think I'm smart but I'm not so sure sometimes. Either way, I'm not pre-programmed to think like that. I'm just happy!

  • Nope never ever.

  • Virginity is not really that important these days, because it really is not that common. Most people have sex with others during their time dating, and a person is foolish to expect that the people they date are virgins. It really does not matter if you are good because you are trying hard or because you have been around. The main thing is that you are good and enjoyable to be with.

  • No not at all. You might of just watched loads of porn.

  • nope... never ever thought about it either

  • No. Plus, as long as there are no health risks, it's not my business if she's 'been around'. Some people are natural orators, some are natural athletes or musicians, and some have talent at boning. I'm betting being great at sex is more fun than the ability to play the cello well haha.

  • Not at all. I would rather have a partner Ken for sex than one who is indifferent.

  • I always find "good in bed" funny because it totally depends on the individual person and what they like and don't like. So you could be "good" to one person, another may think you're horrible. So no I don't.

  • If you haven't, then it's a complement.

  • No, guys will be too busy enjoying themselves. Everyone has a past anyway.

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