If a woman receives casual oral from a guy she knows (they aren't dating) but turns the guy down when asks for a blowjob afterwards, is this unfair?

[Anonymous]

[Markm3212]

depends, did she ask for the oral or did you offer?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Not in the slightest, though I'm sure he may not want to do it again. She doesn't owe him anything in return though.

[Asker]

I once saw an article by a woman saying that men who receive oral but do not give it in return are assholes yet at the same time you often hear people say that men who give women oral and get annoyed when they don't get it in return are assholes because they are "entitled" What are your thoughts on this?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Read different articles?

[Asker]

its hypocritical though, isn't it?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

In relation to that article, sure. Nobody owes the other one anything

[rachel776]

i would do it because i know how much guys need it but you can't make any girl do it if she doesn't want to

[Asker]

I once saw an article by a woman saying that men who receive oral but do not give it in return are assholes yet at the same time you often hear people say that men who give women oral and get annoyed when they don't get it in return are assholes because they are "entitled" What are your thoughts on this? Isn't it hypocritical and unfair

[rachel776]

you already said that to another person

[Wise4myage]

That's very unfair, but he should have asked first.

[jahaims]

She is using him

[Fngrlcknglvr]

No its not

[Asker]

why not

[Fngrlcknglvr]

Because its her decision wether she gows down on him or not

[Asker]

what if she isn't willing to do anything? she gets oral on a casual basis and gives nothing in return?

[Fngrlcknglvr]

She does not have to give you anything 'in return'. This is not how sex works

[Asker]

I once saw an article by a woman saying that men who receive oral but do not give it in return are assholes yet at the same time you often hear people say that men who give women oral and get annoyed when they don't get it in return are assholes because they are "entitled" What are your thoughts on this?

[Fngrlcknglvr]

Everybody can do whatever they want, they also dont have to do anything they dont want to do.