If a woman uses a man for attention/ego boost is she just as bad as men who use women for sex?

It's no denying that women crave attention and often use the prospect of possibly having sex as a carrot on stick to twirl over men's head to keep them interested. So from the sexes standpoint we see men crave sex and women crave attention.
If a woman uses a man for attention/ego boost is she just as bad as men who use women for sex?

If a woman uses a man for attention/ego boost is she just as bad as men who use women for sex?
So would you say a woman who loves that you like her, chats with you, enjoys the attention you give her but has no prospect of ever going out with you and strings you along, is she just as bad as a man who uses women for just sex?

If a woman uses a man for attention/ego boost is she just as bad as men who use women for sex?


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  • Just as bad? I'm not sure if it's just AS bad, but it's definitely bad - yes.

  • I don't think I care.
    As long as no one gets hurt.

    • Getting hurt is inevitable as long as people are being used...

  • Lol same thing

  • Yes. It says she is egotistical and selfish.

  • They crave sex just as much as men... And then some.. And love using sex as a weapon, attraction, attention, and favors...

    • I agree.

  • Your analogy is flawed.

  • i mean most women are ugly tbh, this is the reason they are delusional. Like there is this fat chick i talk to who is 4'11'' i asked her to rate herself and she said she was an 8/10 and then i screenshotted it with a pic of her to my whatsapp group and everyone had a good laugh

    • she was kinky on Skype though and would do EVERYTHING i asked her to lol

  • To evaluate your question. We have to understand what each thing does to people

  • Yes, I think so

  • No because sex can less to babies and diseases.

  • using someone for sex is degrading. But using someone as attention? lol

    • Using someone for attention is degrading, too. I don't believe it's as degrading as using someone for sex, but it is to a degree degrading.

  • no she is worse. cause men are more susceptible.

  • Well, it depends

  • Sounds like both are a case of mistaken communication and/or inability to let go of illusion. Friendship can be great. Sex can be great. Neither is an insult or something to be angry about.

    If you don't communicate what you want and just go along with what someone offers secretly hoping for more... That's all on you.

    Lying is crap, though.

  • I think whichever one is less honest about their intentions is worse.

    If he is clear he is only looking for sex, and she isn't clear she's not, she's worse than him.

    • But that's not what "using for sex" means. Using for sex involves lying and manipulation of the girl.

    • @BuchitaBuchys I find it really varies. People who are fine with casual sex even if they don't themselves participate in it tend to use 'using for sex' to mean manipulation and giving the impression of a relationship while having sex. There's another group however who thinks -all- sex outside of relationships is inherently bad and something that only men, not women want, so all hook up sex is women being 'used'. In this case, even if the guy is very clear about it, they'd still describe his behavior as 'just using women for sex'. I get the impression the original QA may fall in the latter group. But I tried to give the general answer - it depends on honesty and transparency.