If an ex keeps trying to sext with me, if I just go ahead with it to get it out of his system will he possibly stop?

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So it’s not something he just needs to get out of his system to get over it?
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Superb Opinion

  • Never ever ever do anything for anyone just because you feel obligated.
    It's either the right thing to do or the wrong thing to do.
    Especially if it has anything to do with sex.
    And if he's an ex and you give in he'll think he won at manipulating you and no, he won't stop.
    If he won't control himself at least you can control yourself.

    • I never would. If I do it it’s because I get something out of it. You really think a well rounded guy would be that petty as to play around just to see if he can manipulate someone? That’s a pretty sad existence.

    • He's an ex for a reason.

    • Yeah distance. I still respect him enough as a person.

Most Helpful Guy

  • No he will only be encouraged by it. Because it got results he will continue to do it

    • No he won't get it out of his system, he will just keep trying to feed the fire. You have to starve the fire out.

    • Why would he do that? If he’s an ex surely he’d want someone else.

    • just because you're not together doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. Also you can find people physically or sexually attractive without being emotionally available or have a desire to be in a relationship with that person. He's just trying to masturbate, or if he can get you to sext, to see if he can get you to have sex with him again.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • no he definitely will not stop, you'll be telling him if he just harrasses you enough you'll do what he wants. I would suggest blocking him

  • I would tell him straight. If you don't stop trying to sext with me I'm gonna block you and screenshot these and send to everyone.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No. Block him.

    • No. It will fuel the fire and make him do it more.

    • Dm me

  • its lie to keep using you, your dumber than him if you keep doing lol
    you need too block him so he can contact you anymore

    • Not at all, if I get something out of it I do it for me. If I don’t want to I don’t.

  • He won't stop if you let him once. He'll assume you like it and will want to keep doing it.

  • No. He will want more and more until you are fucking again

    • So say we both end up having casual sex for ourselves and our own needs, that’s not leading him on right?

    • Just make it clear you only are in for the sex. Don't want any misunderstandings

    • So he wouldn’t already see it like that... so many people here say that’s all guys ever come back for 🙄

  • Nope. Just block him.

    • Why block? Bit extreme.

  • If you don't want to, don't enable him.

    • Yeah I wouldn’t

  • No!!! He’ll keep bugging you

    • No. Definitely not.

  • No, he will keep coming back. Either block or ignore, he'll get tired of interacting with himself.

  • You would be better off if you blocked & ignored him.

  • Nope because your opening the door to maybe dick pics or talking to him while he masturbates.

    Some exs see what your willing to do.

    • But why... casual sex?

    • I have no desire to even have casual sex with an ex. So I have no clue.