Simulation vs. reality, no? It's like in a video game, I can ride a futuristic hovercraft that fires missiles, evade futuristic police, save the entire world while driving at 500 miles per hour. It doesn't mean I get bored driving my actual car as a result. These are completely separate compartments with a totally different kind of experience.
0 1 0 0I also had this kind of crush on Cersei Lannister (not the actress, the character on the TV show). But it's totally fantasy. I don't even understand it. I wouldn't ever want to date a Cersei Lannister. Sounds like most awful girlfriend ever. She's just sort of interesting to me as a fantasy character -- so evil and "pure" in a way with her impulsiveness -- in a make-believe world without real consequences. But it's totally fantasy -- completely different from reality, and doesn't detract from the charm of reality.
I'm kind of a weird one but I think I separate fantasy and reality more than most. I'm not at all into role-playing or kinks, for example. In reality, I'm drawn to genuineness above all things. I even like some laughter in the bedroom, like when you both try to kiss each other exactly at the same time and bump heads. I dig that. It feels so genuine. Any kind of role-playing or resemblance to fantasy and it messes up that whole impression of "genuineness" to me, like an obstacle between hearts and minds connecting. And I find it really special when minds and hearts connect, it makes sex 100 times better for me in particular, and so I don't find myself wishing I was with some other girl when I have that. It's hard enough to find that with one girl in the first place.
So to answer my question... Do you or do you not get bored from the same girl?
We do, that’s where things like role play and fore play come in.
1 0 0 1Do you sometimes need to think about another girl? Like a friend of yours or something like that to finish with your gf?
My girlfriend and I have an open relationship so that helps. Normally it just became less interesting over time but I did still enjoy it.
Novelty= dopamine so you don’t tend to get that part of it unless you mix things up somehow
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(6)pussies come in different shapes and sizes. Not one size fits all girl.
0 0 0 0That doesn't answer my question.. At all.. This is intact irrelevant to my question
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I mean the idea that a guy might actually have a heart and feel something for a female even if they're not "madly" in love with her, right?
No way that could ever happen, no...1 1 0 0What? This isn't about him being in love with her.. As i specified already... *eye roll*
Eh, I don't watch porn, maybe your wrong about him and he does love you
0 0 0 0I dont have a boyfriend
And that does not answer my question at all
Because porn is visual fantasy and you are the real thing, that is much different.
0 1 0 0So you dont get bored even if you're not in love with her? Like you never struggle to finish?
No I actually don't, and no one is ever fully compatible with another.
Some people still have a little dignity and just don't and won't cheat on their girl.
1 0 0 0Thats not about cheating.. Im asking if you struggle with finishing when its been, say 2 years together.. If you need to think if another girl to finish with your girlfriend
Well i am single but would only do that if she desired it. But i have never gotten bored in my relationships but i am horny 99.9% of the time
Have you ever choose to watch porn instead of sex with her? Even just once?
It's not really a "get bored" kinda thing when it comes to porn, at least to me. I just wanna fap and get it over with. There are always favorites of course.
0 0 0 0And what about your gf? After 2 years do you struggle cuming to her?
I wouldn't know. I've never had a girlfriend. I will however say I have had feelings for this girl I've known for at least 6 years, and I know I would never get tired of her.
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