If guys give up on chicks who won’t have sex with them, why do they judge girls’ body count?

[On_cloud_wine]

You make it seem like we’re suppose to or we’re just leading you on.

[hellionthesagereborn]

No. Some men who only want sex want you to put out, men who want relationships are the ones who are going to judge you on your body count (why is this confusing? Do you think that all men are exactly the same with the same exact behaviors, desires, and opinions? If so, you have some issues you need to work through).

Now when a man is in a relationship he will absolutely expect sex because thats kind of the deal, he gives you what he has (his time, money, and protection) you give him what you have (sex, emotional intimacy and a nurturing nature).

If however he only wants sex, he doesn't give to fucks about how many men you have been with because he has no intention of ever being in a relationship with you so its not relevant. Its only relevant if he wants a relationship because a woman who is promiscuous is going to be a worse choice for a long term partner then a woman who isn't (statistically speaking).

Its pretty simple and straight forward, don't know where the confusion is.

[colelydiason]

It isn't just guys that judge "body counts", girls judge their fair share too.
Guys want it both ways, an easy girl thats only easy for them.
Ever heard - guys want a good girl that's naughty only for them and girls want a bad boy who is only good to them?

[On_cloud_wine]

You didn’t answer my question

[colelydiason]

I did, easy girl but only for them. It's why 'virgins' are so coveted by these types of guys

[JackSmy]

Body Count? WTF are you asking? I don't understand you question? Are guys supposed to be killing someone? WTF?

[On_cloud_wine]

Hehe I learned the term here.. obviously you don’t hang out in the sexuality category often

[On_cloud_wine]

= Sex partners

[JackSmy]

@on_cloud_wine NO, and of course you don't say what it means! I'm not one of you 'perverts' and I guess I don't get to know the 'secret terms' for perversion?

[JackSmy]

@on_cloud_wine HOW does "Body Count" equate to 'sex partners'? THAT MAKES NO SENSE!!!

[On_cloud_wine]

I know, it makes the whole love making sound dirty. Ah.. tonight will be body count 50

[On_cloud_wine]

Do you talk as loud as you write?

[JackSmy]

@on_cloud_wine Then why use the term? I totally ADORE any woman that I am dating, and loving! She is my all, and EVERYHING!! But 'Body count'? That just seems sick, and twisted, and suggested by some ignorant HATERS! I will NEVER use that! Best wishes, and love, to you, dear lady!

[On_cloud_wine]

thanks for your input. Adios Amigo

[JackSmy]

@on_cloud_wine YES. I am a Viking, by my ancestry, and I am BOLD, and PROUD, in many ways! Some are offended, and I am sorry that they are, but I am who I am, and many others like that, the Confidence, and the PRIDE, and they follow, and like what I say. Have I offended you, or am I just presenting some new thing, you are not familiar with, and unsure of?

[On_cloud_wine]

No, I’m happy you’re proud of your ancestry. I accept everyone from all walks of life. You just add more diversity to the group! But I hope you don’t think I’m going to making you my next body count baHAhA

[JackSmy]

@on_cloud_wine Posting as 104, I would be afraid, yeah, that you would be literally, "body count" if I loved you, intimately, intensely!

[On_cloud_wine]

Heh. Please don’t. I’m allergic to that kind of love.

[JackSmy]

@on_cloud_wine No offense intended!!

[Berethor]

Different guys, an guys who look for easy sex would usually be going for sluts.

[Berethor]

Yes the world always been like this, virgin girls are wife material, sluts good only for casual sex.

tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

[LeeannaDD]

They are insecure about having less experience

[On_cloud_wine]

That’s why you think a girl won’t have sex with a guy?

[On_cloud_wine]

In that case, those girls just need a really good talker.

[LeeannaDD]

No, that’s why I think body counts bother guys

[DreamCatchcer]

In my younger days it would bug me a lot when I knew for a fact that other guys had a higher count than I did. Plus When it came to the girl I was with It bothered me if had been with a lot of guys. As people mature it shouldn't be an issue

[On_cloud_wine]

@DreamCatchcer as I mature, it becomes a bigger issue. I don’t wanna guy who sleeps around. I don’t care if he changes for me

[DreamCatchcer]

I see my comment was removed. I don't believe I said anything offensive?

[On_cloud_wine]

@DreamCatchcer I didn’t remove it

[DreamCatchcer]

Yeah I see it. Maybe I just over looked it.

[Ripper_E]

No idea. I wouldn't expect sex until she feels comfortable and ready.

[On_cloud_wine]

So your comfortable and ready to go at anytime?

[On_cloud_wine]

Why are some guys honest and straight to the point and some guys want to pretend that they want more of a connection

[On_cloud_wine]

These : types of guys are the same

[On_cloud_wine]

These two*

[Ripper_E]

Not necessarily. But it's her body. She will have sex when she is ready, not when I want it.

[chriscdi]

guys that give up on women for clearly not getting any pussy are different men than the ones that care about body count

[On_cloud_wine]

Are they really though? I mean they’d be a hypocrite for being judgmental

[On_cloud_wine]

If all men were the same

[chriscdi]

they aren't all the same tho

[updog45]

I've only heard of a girl being judged on her body count when its an insane number. a few not so much.

[On_cloud_wine]

If you engage in casual sex, there’s a point of no return.

[b5fan]

I have never asked for a body count.

[On_cloud_wine]

If you engage in casual sex, you shouldn’t.

[b5fan]

Even if you don't what is the point? Judge people the character that is revealed as you get to know them.

[Tellme]

Not all guys are the same. I don’t mind the body count.

[Valnac]

All the girls I showed interest in were all eager to have sex pretty much right away!

[On_cloud_wine]

Must be nice 👍

[On_cloud_wine]

You lie about your age? You don’t look like a 35 yr ol man

[Valnac]

I’m actually 39

[On_cloud_wine]

Ok person I do not know, whatever you say

[Creamernick1]

Because guys are Dick's

[gandolph3]

exactly, double standard, immaturity

[Anonymous]

You are actually backwards.
Girls who put out get fucked and chucked, girls with morals and class are keepers.

But if a girl is a hoe and then holds out to fake some bullshit virtue then it pisses guys off because just turning on a dignity act doesn’t make you valuable.

Either always be or never be. There is no flip flopping.

[Anonymous]

The majority of girls who have a high body count don't turn down many guys, if any ! They revel in getting their penis count higher and higher.

Not saying they're wrong to do so but boy their vaginas sure get to be well worn.. like a well used 2nd hand automobile with high mileage on the clock !!!

[On_cloud_wine]

At least they’re not wasting your time?