If he didn't cum a lot or takes awhile to cum does that mean he wasn't into it?

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been ft sexting this guy off and on and today first time in 3 months. i was rlly not shaved today. I made mood lighting and he was like no lights on and any hair is fine. But it was a lot. He kept saying like oh that's nothing. I have way more than that. And then we were doing stuff and i was just self conscious. He eventually came took awhileee and was such little amount of cum. Was I ugly and too hairy oof.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As far as the amount he came, that can vary from man to man. If you are comparing it to porn, for example, forget it. Most of those cumshots are fake and much more than is actually possible. Normal amount is about 1.5 to 5.0 milliliters.

Low volume of ejaculate (below 1.5ml) can be caused by a number of things including certain physical or health problems. If it happens regularly, especially if he doesn't cum for a few days and then the volume is still low, he should get checked by a doctor to make sure there isn't something wrong.

It takes a few days for the volume of semen to regenerate once a man cums. Each time he cums before a few days pass there will be less volume.

As to how long it takes, as long as he is keeping an erection and it keeps you happy no problem. Most women are worried that their man will come too soon because men generally take less time to cum than women. So if he doesn't that's a plus for you.

But it could also be that he was just distracted and it's a temporary thing.

I wouldn't worry too much about the meaning of it all unless it is an ongoing thing.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

While I'm sure he'd have preferred it shaved, honestly it was more likely you worrying about it that made him distracted and "reduced" his performance than anything else. But guys have "off days" too - even if we're really into it, sometimes our hormones are off, or we're not hydrated enough, or whatever, and our output is reduced.

I recommend you don't overthink it, and just be a bit more prepared next time.

Paige90 · Accepted Answer

First, shave/wax or laser all your pubic hair off. It's nasty! Second, the guy could have masturbated right before you got with him which makes him cum a lot slower and a lot less.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Not at all. When it comes to guys cumming, it's mostly mental, so he could have been nervous or he might have been shy about cumming. Sometimes I get shy about cumming in front of a girl and it takes me longer. When guys cum only a little, that means theye not hydrated enough. Most likely your guy isn't drinking enough fluids. Anti depressants will cause longer ejaculation times also.

spartan55 · Answer

Has nothing to do with it. You let it ruin the sex.

Barry88 · Answer

You can't say anything based on the amount of cum. I have never been able to control the amount. For example, if he masturbated earlier that day and already did cum, the amount of cum in the second load later that day might be a lot less. But he did cum, so he enjoyed it. And many guys don't care that much about pubic hair anyway if they can have sex. So don't worry, he loved it.

Drewtate · Answer

He's probably a Masturbator. So dump him.

Fireguy17 · Answer

it could be he rubbed one out before so he wouldn't be so excited to see you that he would cum too soon.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

That does not mean that, no.

Goofy9009 · Answer

No not completely into it (sometimes you just gotta spice it up a bit

tfan1 · Answer

He probably masturbated and ejaculated earlier that day

Danish87 · Answer

He might had masturbated early and so might not have get much. Don't think a lot about looks. On text pic is much more a thing.

Wise4myage · Answer

Did he go soft? If he did, then he might not be into you.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

not sure about the cumming a lot part but if he took a long ass time he might have Delayed Ejaculation Syndrome. I should know cause I have that and a lot times not matter how into I am I just can't ejaculate on my own. this could also happen if he is low on sensitivity