If he gets hard again immediately after sex, does that mean he wasn't satisfied?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend is 22 and I am 21. I am on birth control. When we have sex he cums inside me and we do it pretty much everyday. Most of the time after he cums in me, his penis goes down in like a minute. But sometimes after sex, he asks me to suck him some more and he gets hard again immediately but he doesn't cum again for awhile. And sometimes after sex, his penis stays hard longer than usual but then it goes back down. He always says he came, but if he gets hard again immediately after sex or if it stays hard for awhile longer after sex, could it be that I'm not exactly satisfying him the first time? He doesn't cum again after sex very quickly, though. And most of the time, it just goes back down after he cums. I just wonder if I'm not satisfying him as much sometimes when he is still hard after sex.

[Sangita93]

Sex in our life is the most pleasant but mysterious and complex activity. It is hard to say whether men or women enjoys it better and want it more when it comes to sex. An argument in favor of women’s superior sexual experience is that they can have multiple orgasms. It is believed that if a man finish – he is done and satisfied. We enjoy sex almost every day and we have frequently enjoyed two or more rounds without his pulling out within few minutes. Most of the time after he cums in me, his penis do not go floppy but get hard enough in few minutes. Second round last much longer and smooth because his cum acts as an excellent lubricant. Occasionally his penis stays hard for some time after he cum and then it go small. It is said that strong attraction for his girl and some stimulant foods increase man`s sex desire, drive and encourage him to perform the act more frequently and wildly. An extremely small subset of men claim they can achieve this as well as in have multiple ejaculations without losing their erection in between, but there is no good evidence that this ability exists for most men. Most men have to wait a considerable amount of time before they can get things going again. This is called the refractory period. There is no standard definition for it. The fact is that the term refractory period is used to gives us a hint that there are still many unknowns when it comes to this bodily process. Refractory periods usually last a minimum of 10 to 30 minutes for most men, but the upper limit is in days. Part of the issue here is that this is difficult to test, because sex is a mental process first and physical next. It would require a man to have an orgasm and then attempt to do it again as soon as possible. And refractory periods are highly variable and dependent on the situation. A major part of this is that the refractory period is dependent on wanting to have sex again. A man who is, for whatever reason, really into his partner have mysterious spark one day may have a shorter refractory period than he will next day. Refractory periods also tend to lengthen as a man ages. We know that ejaculation causes an immediate decrease in sperm count and that it takes some time to build that count back up. This is why many fertility experts advise men to wait at least two days between ejaculations in order to get his woman pregnant.

[Bricealan]

Now that is what I call a well thought out and detailed reply

[Tamera952]

Has nothing to do with you what so ever! Nothing at all. It's just the testosterone in his system. Biologically, after he cums there is a refractory period that varies from guy to guy. Different guys enjoy a wide variety of post-cum stimulation, but every guy is different. When he gets hard, or how he gets hard, or for how soon, or how soon he can come again, has more to do with his sex drive/testosterone level and his personal physiology and NOTHING to do with his interest in his partner.
And of course he cums. Guys always cum. Guys don't have sex and not cum. It's their biological mission to cum. It's purely physical and they don't have emotions wrapped up in their twat like girls do.

[Bricealan]

Everything you describe is 'normal' for a guy his age. At 21, most guy's penis will stay erect or almost erect after ejaculation, and then probably soften somewhat, but not become completely flaccid afterward. Then, he can easily become fully erect again after a relatively short time. When I was 21, erections were frequent and long term. Remember, after he ejaculates, there will be a lot of semen, depending on how often he has jacked off beforehand. Each ejaculation allows him to stay harder, longer before ejaculating again, and maybe he won't ejaculate the second and third time. You will get used to the 'cycles' with the more experience you have.

[integrale77]

I'd say you probably got him super horny that's why he got hard again straight after sex, but he's probably experiencing some of the affects of the refectory period that's why he doesn't ejaculate again though he might feel an internal orgasm.

I know this can happen because recently me and my girlfriend where having sex I came and was still trying to thrust away then suddenly I came again or at least it felt like that I hadn't pulled out so I can't say if there was any more cum from that or if it was just dry.

[MsTaniaUncensored]

he's young and that isn't uncommon. Enjoy it of he can start going again so soon affer.

[loves2learn]

Nope. Means he’s really attracted to you and probably really enjoyed the sex. Round 2?

[Wise4myage]

Ring the bell ref!! 😂

[Asker]

He fucks me twice sometimes, but usually it is only once. And most of the time after sex, his penis goes right back down. I'm just wondering why it stays hard or gets hard again immediately sometimes. If he goes soft right after sex most of the time, could that possibly mean that it wasn't great for him?

[Asker]

I mean, I always tell him I'll give him more rounds, but most of the time he says he is done after 1 or 2 rounds.

[loves2learn]

Well, could be he jacked it earlier in the day. Could be it’s been a while since he jacked it and he’s ready for more. Could be the sex was particularly amazing and he wants more. If he came he enjoyed the sex. Don’t over think it. :)

[Katie1964]

Probably means he is young or taking Viagra

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope that’s normal, you have sex and then can be ready to do again and again etc.

nothing to be concerned about, just you get more sex and should take advantage of it by adding in variation

[Asker]

Well, we usually fuck once a night though. Sometimes twice a night but not super often. What if he gets hard again really soon after sex but doesn't want a second round? Does that possibly mean he isn't satisfied?

[ChrisMaster69]

He might be wanting to not hurt you, if you are not wet enough etc, Talk to him about it, 5-7 or more is common at your age

[ohshee]

Yeah that's natural at that age and it means that he was satisfied and that he could go again so get it while you can because then when he hits his thirties that ability will go away but then when he hits his forties it comes back again

[Asker]

He doesn't want it again though. He usually only wants it once. Sometimes twice. Is that a bad sign?

[bones0271]

No nothing is wrong

[Newhead]

It just means he wants to get laid again, and really enjoy having sex with you.

[Asker]

Well, we usually fuck once a night though. Sometimes twice a night but not super often. What if he gets hard again really soon after sex but doesn't want a second round?

[Newhead]

It doesn't mean anything bad sweety, he is a horny barney.

[Leavesbound]

No it means that sex with you is so erotic that he got horny again just remembering how great it was with you a few minutes ago. You're so good at it he wants to go again.

If you go on a roller coaster ride at a theme park and then you buy a ticket to go again is it because you didn't enjoy the ride? No of course not. If you buy another ticket it means you liked the ride so much you want to go again. if you weren't satisfied with the ride you'd try another ride elsewhere instead.

[Asker]

Right. Thank you for this. But even if he gets hard again soon after sex, he usually doesn't want to go again because he says that the second oragsm will take a lot longer. And sometimes if we do have a second round like 2 hours later, sometimes he can cum but sometimes he can't. Why can't he cum during the second round sometimes but other times, he can?

[Leavesbound]

It almost always takes a guy more effort to cum the second time around. Testicles and prostates need recovery time. It varies from guy to guy. If he hasn't cum in three days then his recovery time will be shorter than if he cums every day. I wouldn't worry too much. He might just figure it would take hours for his second time and doesn't want to devote all that time to it.

[The_Maphio]

He was satisfied, but he's ready for seconds.
Either you've been great or he's just a sex machine.

[wankiam]

usually it means he is still horny... often its acually an indicator that the sex was so good it turned him on so much he needs it again... i myself have often masturbated after sex just because i was so turned on and not because i wasn't ''satisfied''

[Asker]

Well, we usually fuck once a night though. Sometimes twice a night but not super often. What if he gets hard again really soon after sex but doesn't want a second round? Does that possibly mean he isn't satisfied?

[wankiam]

no... it means he is aroused because it was so good but maybe too tired to go again

[kkirk4442]

This is all normal, and it's not because you didn't satisfy him. Sometimes, after great sex, a penis will stay larger, longer. Don't worry. Judging from his penis, he seems to be well satisfied.

[beldath]

I've found that when I have amazing sex, I stay hard for a while after, and sometimes I can even go again.

[Ripper_E]

No. It means he is aroused.

[FilmGuy93]

It just means that he doesn't have a very long refractory period; he's a young guy.

[Asker]

Yeah but he usually only wants to fuck me once a night though. Sometimes twice a night. If he was horny and the sex was good the first time, wouldn't he want to go again?

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, absolutely.

[Asker]

I mean, I always tell him I'll give him more rounds, but most of the time he says he is done after 1 or 2 rounds.

[Asker]

Doss that mean that he might not be getting satisfied if he's hard after sex and doesn't want to go again?

[FilmGuy93]

If he can get hard, but doesn't want more sex, then he probably wasn't satisfied by the first round.

[Asker]

he moans really loud during sex and he says that he cums and I see it dripping back out of me.. what could cause sex to be unsatisfying for a man if he is cumming?

[FilmGuy93]

Maybe you didn't participate enough or give him enough enthusiasm. Cumming doesn't mean that the sex was satisfying. Men cum really easily.

[Kabluie]

I can get hard again sometimes in a minute after cumming inside. It kind of helps to insert again while it's like 75% hard as it's like pleasure explosion.

Sometimes we can cum and not refract right away too which is great because I just keep going until I can't anymore and there is some pleasure of just mashing around in our juices. Also we can only release so much cum in a period of time, so he can come without splashing much after repeated attempts.

[Browneye57]

No, it means he's young and dumb and full of cum.
Enjoy it while you can. :)

[genericname85]

can you more precisely define "immediately"? like does it even go limp or does it stay hard? and if it goes limp, for how long?

[Asker]

Sometimes he stays hard for about 10 minutes after and sometimes he goes soft after sex but gets hard again when we cuddle in like 5 minutes. Is this a sign I'm not satisfying him sexually?

[genericname85]

staying hard for 10 minues after isn't quite normal to me. getting hard 5 minutes after again is easily possible if you're turned on by the girl you're with. i personally can do multiple rounds without a break but that takes serious focus, dedication and a really hot action that i'm super into.

[Asker]

What could it mean if he stays hard for awhile longer after sex than usual? Usually he goes soft after sex.

[genericname85]

i mean it can take a few minutes to go soft. specially if there's still some simulation. but if he stays hard 10 minutes after sex without any stimulation, i would assume he didn't cum. either that or he was just extremely turned on. hard to know as an outsider.

[Hannajenky]

That’s probably a good thing 👍

[JustACuriousLady]

He's fine. Relax. he's a guy if there was a problem he'd bitch about it.

[jahaims]

Nope

[SenseiSeptred]

Um, no that is not the case, the thing about it is that once an orgasm happens, it will take at least 2 or more times the effort to do so again, but when you do so again, the orgasm is much bigger each time you do it, but the problem is that both of you are burning nutrient fuel in your body each time you do that, and that is why it is so hard to have multiple orgasms in a day for both genders.